Hi,
Me and the wife have two kids and the wife has been sole day time child minder(her choice). So that means I have been the sole provider. Now I am not on a bad wage at all, but but we are a bit tight every month( mabe should not have bought such a large house).
The wife has been down for months realy due to her wanting driving lessons and more than looking after the kids.
So I said get some night work couple times a week, I suggested the local pub and anyway she said, I would like to work in a massage parlor, I said would be ok if it was a rub and wank place. Anyway she sorted out a rub and wank place and is working there.
She says she does not mind the work and its great money. I know it just a run and wank place, but why do I feel so odd about it
Your thoughts
lol
Sassy we are totalaly together and very very close she tells me all, complete trust, thats why we have tryed the odd swing.
I get told all the details and I have been there once and talked to the boss it's all fine and the missus now can give dogs bollox massage as they are trained.
I should be ok about, but I am not sure if I am.
I think you feel weird about it because she's doing it on her own. I'm not saying you'd like to be involved just that it's hard to know that she's having/giving a sexual act alone -when you're not around.
That's why so many swingers have certain rules (like no kissing etc) that seem arbitrary to others but it helps them curb the weirdness they feel.
I'm in no way experienced but I've done my research!
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So filling shelves at Asda is not her cup of tea? Or qualifying as a childminder so she can take care of your kids and other people's at home? Or being an Avon/Oriflame lady? Why do I get the feeling she is actually enjoying working at the massage parlor? That it was not the last resort for her but the first choice?
Of course you will feel odd about it, no matter how liberated you are. This is a matter that you and your wife have to sort out for yourselves.
Sorry I can't be of any help.
brenda, I think thats it,
She say's its not very nice at all somthimes, she says it nothing sexual which it is not for her,
but mabie not being there is the issue, I am not out of mind me at it far from, just a little weird.
Tana, she does not want to work for 4 hours £15 from asda, where is can make 60 100 pounds for the same time.(we have allready had the convsation). She does I addmit she needs to wash her hands more than ASDA(Joke).
she has thought about it for a long time. it only tempory anyway.
The money is more but so are the dangers. Heard something recently about some massage parlor murders...
Also once you get used to this kind of money, there is no going back, which to me is the biggest pitfall of all.
His wife could have made lots of money offering phone sex services from home at the times that would suit her (when children are asleep or at school). That would have been a lot safer as there is no actual contact with the clients.
Again I don't see what we can do about Cossie's domestic situation. It really does not matter what we think. It is her life and she is going to live it as she wants.
I have no issue with the morality of it at all. I would be happier in a massage parlour than stacking shelves- some people would do it the other way around. Its down to personal choice.
However, I think you may have a problem because of the "how could you let your wife do that" kind of mentality that is still prevalent in society. You know you love her, she knows you love her. So stuff em!
Do, as has been said, be very careful that the money does not become too depended on however. There are too many 55 year old escorts out there still pretending to be 29....the money is like a drug.
Bearing that in mind- get on with it, if she enjoys pleasuring the guys, then she'll be good at her job- job satisfaction is a good thing!
Thanks wench, The Term Nail ond Head come mind.
I think its the what people would think angle .
I am fine with it, she is ok with it as she says most of the times its not at all pleasant.
but hey
anyway thanks Wench I feel a little better now
lol you funny fookers,
we are fine about it we think, just have to see how the cookie crumbles.
Thanks for the replys poeple, just wanted to run it by some people as I don't think our frends would be a good idea as they don't even no we swing.
we would be out casted lol
) of many jokes and even though there are some upmarket places that are discreet and reputable, there are plenty more seedy places around. Have you seen the place she's working? Maybe if you went there with her for a look around it might put your mind at ease. 
you really are in a naughty mood today aren't you? :smackbottom:
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