Ah yes, that old chestnut. I've read the ad, I don't match any of the requirements but they're bound to look at my profile and change their minds as to what they want so I'll answer it anyway.
Don't get me started.
H.x
To go from one extreme to the other: I got ONE PM in February, and that from a couple I already had been in contact with previously!
Still figures like those quoted above are crazy, all but impossible to cope with!
Funny enough we had one today from a couple that sent us a pm last week,i explained to them that we wanted fem/fem fun and that her profile said she was straight so we weren't suitable,todays "i might play with you after hubby has",ff's,just have to laff
It is bizarre that people think you'll be interested if they send you a cut and paste or an invitation when they obviously even havent read your advert or theyve read it and ignored it!
There's nowt more off putting than a nob who cant take the time to do it properly.
Me "Hi I'm female looking for a woman close to where I live"
Nob "I am a 6 foot male wrestler living 265 miles away from you, I usually have sex with goats but I am willing to give you a try, check out my profile"
Me "Errrr no thanks now f*** off"
It's always going to happen.
Best thing I suggest is you tell your friend to take the ad down altogether.
Put text in the profile area specifying want she wants/doesn't want and then reply to other people's ads that she's interested in.
I was on this site for a year and a half before I put an ad up myself.