Point(s) taken.I have been about quite a bit but just not to the same places as other me i don't want to moralise about anyone,since i have things in my past that i'm not proud people want to sell sex,or whatever then that's up to them.I take your point about guys now going to look for the ad now that i've drawn attention to only intention was to perhaps stop people getting into what i regard as a potentially lethal that's just my opinion,and others are entitled to theirs'.I hope we can leave it here now since i don't want to get into a slagging match with anyone and hope that there are no hard feelings,everyone is fully entitled to their own