The time has come for us to leave. This isn't a 'stomp', 'flounce' or whatever else.
Over the past few weeks/months I've sat and surveyed a few things.
Firstly, I've sadly come to realise how shallow a lot of people are, especially certain people I really liked. There are too many people in here who aren't what they portray. I can't abide lies.
Secondly, I've witnessed a few marriages breaking down via here. I can't say they're swinging related, but what it's made me realise is that my marriage and friendship with Jay is worth more than this.
Thirdly, I no longer enjoy posting, the banter isn't the same, there are way too many hidden words, agendas and meanings in people's posts.. can't be bothered with that.
We've both made some brilliant friends in our time here, and the ones that matter will remain in touch I'm sure, and me to those. We'll still be visiting clubs for sexy fun now and then, but in the main we won't be swinging anymore.
I'll keep our account open for a few days, mainly so that if anyone wants my personal email addy to keep in touch they can PM me via here and I'll give it out.
Take care, happy swinging :swingingchair: xxx
Hear everything you say.............have great life.
Peace xxxxxx
Sorry to see you leaving Mar...always enjoyed reading your posts...they were always very fair minded.
Good luck!!
Jaymar's leaving saddens me very much,I've had many a kind word from her on here, thank you JM xxx
Good luck Mar, and thanks. Your good sense in here will be missed.
Jaymar I sent you a mail when this I found to be locked but I can write it here now as the mail hasent been opened.
I feel at times we had a difference of opinions, but what I always felt with you is that you have always come across with honesty and I respected your opinion as I would never disagree with anyone that stood for what they believe in.
You have made me think at times too.
What your post said I totally agree with you, although luckily I have kept a distance from being pulled into any particular circle of people.
It must feel awful to have been let down by people you thought of as friends here and one of the reasons I kept to myself, I see exactly what you say in what others say and are, it is easy looking from a distance and seeing that happens.
As you have said your relationship is important.
At the end of the day that is what is important, we are both lucky to have that.
All I am left to say is always be true to you and yours and let no other drag you down.
Good luck and best wishes to you and your family.
Take Care
Minx
Jaymar, I hold you fondly, we did have some damn good coffee mornings in here ;)
I have finally posted again, only to say good bye and good luck to you xxxxxx
(prev. Juniper)
Sorry to hear that. Good luck.
I read this too late.
Farewell both - I mean that in the fullest sense of the word.
Sorry we never met.
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