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Hello again everyone
@ steve-shireen
Hello steve
Lets get one thing straight... I am not a Transvestite.
Judy is a Transvestite....And is happy being what she is.....one of the rare few that accept and enjoy themselves as they are. And boy do they enjoy themselves !!!
Now a Transsexual is a completely different creature....we may well have our roots in the same place, as most Transsexuals spend a period, pre transition, doing the 'part time' thing.
But we are never happy until we can face the world in our true colours, for better or worse.
It is not about, what is between the legs that counts.....that is just plumbing.
I dont expect people to understand what goes on in the head of a Transsexual....As the saying goes..."You have to be there"
Now that you have been suitably admonished....Does that offer of a drink still stand?
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Ice Pie
I have left you to last because your comments go right to the root of the problem Transsexuals suffer.
I have to agree that being honest from the very start should be the way to do it.
No Transsexual wants to be be dishonest....why live a lie?...We all spent years doing exactly that,
trying to be something that we are not just because Nature dealt us a bad hand.
But.....
We now come to the 'Labels'
No Transsexual wants to wear the label....because once we have admitted we are different...we are treated differently.
... to openly declare we are a Transsexual results in being treated differently.......It is just the way it is....People cannot help it...they do not mean anything bad by it, but it is obvious to us that it happens.
Are we being too defensive in thinking this way?.....I dont know if it is defensive...but it does make us a little dissapointed that we cannot be just one of the girls and treated exactly the same.
So you see...by my admission to everyone on here that I am Transsexual I have now 'Labelled' myself and will always wear that label......."Hi there gurl" (the Transsexual) You dont have to say it...It's there in your thoughts...and often in your eyes....
I have great admiration for those Transsexuals that do stand up and be counted...Those that work tirelessly and without reward to make changes in this world so that we can move a bit closer to full acceptance. I know they wish, as do we all, that they didnt have to.
Well....I probably wont be using the chat room anymore....Please... To any room Ops..... The chat room is fine...I wish the one I used to be an Op in, had ran as smoothly as yours sometimes. I just dont think it is the place for me.
The forum.....Well I did say that you people were addictive...so lets just say I will probably be watching.
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Hello again everyone
I would like to say thank you to all those that replied to this posting or via the private message system.
I have read each and every response several times and am going to try and reply to all of you here in some small way.
Please do not be offended by any of my answers and do not think I have not read the whole of your posting, for to answer all the comments in full would make this reply terribly long....and already I believe it is going to be.
And If you find some of my comments....just a bit 'unusual'...well thats the way I really talk....This is to be a toally honest and hopefully unedited posting.
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@ HungryP
Ok......Thank you for you support but your comments did leave me a little confused...or maybe not.
Maybe, the confusion is caused by the difference between Cross Dressers and Transsexuals.
You are straight but would not be interested in 'taking things further' with someone in my situation........You mean a girl???
Its okay, I dont mean to be ungrateful for your comments. Obviously you may not haveany idea what I or other Transsexuals may look like. Believe me when I say , that some Transsexuals are so good looking and convincing that you would never know they were not born female.
my initial reaction is that I would not be interested in "taking things further" with someone in you situation, but thinking a bit more...... if I met you that might be different.