Hello everyone. I would like some advice as to wether its better to go to a club or a munch to have a taster of the swinging lifestyle so to speak. I am a single guy (who has swung with the ex) but a girlfriend of mine is curious to know what its like and all about. I've told her what I can but I have never been in more than a couple situation so would'nt know what to say to her. I've suggested we go to some sort of meet together to find out if this is something she would want to experiment with. Both she and I are keen to 'take a peep' as we say and would appreciate any advice you could give us as this would be our 1st time mingling with a group of people who have a similar philosophy.
try both ...see what you like...
They are two completely different things - if you want your peep to involve action - go to the club.
Also it depends what you want from swinging all clubs are slightly different and can differ by which night it is.
If you talk to people at a munch it will depend on why they swing and what they want from it as to what you find out.
The important thing is to work out what you both want - then find somewhere you can make that happen.
A mucnh is a social event where you meet people from the site social - have a few.... or some times.... a lot to drink, have a laugh and joke and bogey and make friends.
A Club is completely diffrent playing does go on in clubs but i personally find its less socialble.
MikeC