Going along to a swinging club does not necessarily imply "jumping in head first", many people go and just end up socialising and maybe observing the first time, or first few times - there's absolutely no obligation to do anything you don't want to - just play it safe. And a munch is purely a social evening in a pub. I would recommend getting to know people here in the cafe, and in the chatroom, and then you might well find people to meet up with at a swinging club. Quite a few of us on here from the North West see each other from time to time in some of the popular swinging clubs in the Lancashire area, sometimes arranging to meet, sometimes just meeting by chance. But to sum up, getting to know people here helps, and you'll soon be able to "jump in" if you feel like it. Good luck.
Mike.
(Another newbie asks) I assume that munches are also just sociable, unless one wishes to take matters further with another couple...... Also, do munches tend to be lunches or what, and what sort of numbers?
Take the plunge and go to Utopia. We were there a couple of weeks ago and got chatting to a couple who had passed by the place recently and wondered what sort of club it was. They "googled" it on the internet and decided to give it a go. Although initially shy and a little nervous, they seemed to enjoy the night and left with big beaming smiles on their faces. Go on! You know you want to...
Oh, so that's what it is, I wish I'd asked myself. Too shy to go headfirst myself, but you make it sound so relaxed and friendly. I shall watch for something suitable for me now.
Thanks MikeNorth
thanks mike
think we will probably go in the next couple of weeks when we find out what to wear, take etc, we`re sorted for somewhere to stay not to far away so we can go anytime
nice to have support from you all
xx
posted this before in the wrong place
