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Must try harder...what skill are you lacking in the boudoir?

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Quote by winchwench
using plenty of lube, position yourself twixt his thighs. Interlock your fingers, and rub them at varying speeds up & down the shaft. Use the gap between your fingers & thumbs to push the head of the penis through from time to time......keep it closed pretty tight though, and it will feel like he's pushing his cock into a tight vagina.
Use the "ribbed" feel of your fingers to effect by running them over the head of his cock intermittently, in a rocking motion. Add an occasional "twist" for variety.

I shall be sure to try this next time I am with a cock wink
I will provide feedback..... :P
Surely a man can do it all better himself tho' and that is why I sort of steer away from doing handy/wanky type things.... ? Am I wrong?
Quote by Steve
I just found some stuff here...

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Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork:
In the interests of furthering your development I will volunteer myself :rascal: (is that whats know as taking one for the team dunno )
you will make an A* student, I am sure wink
Quote by jaymar
I just found some stuff here...

:

Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork: Mr McC says wheres does he form the queue??? rolleyes
Quote by splendid_

using plenty of lube, position yourself twixt his thighs. Interlock your fingers, and rub them at varying speeds up & down the shaft. Use the gap between your fingers & thumbs to push the head of the penis through from time to time......keep it closed pretty tight though, and it will feel like he's pushing his cock into a tight vagina.
Use the "ribbed" feel of your fingers to effect by running them over the head of his cock intermittently, in a rocking motion. Add an occasional "twist" for variety.

I shall be sure to try this next time I am with a cock wink
I will provide feedback..... :P
Surely a man can do it all better himself tho' and that is why I sort of steer away from doing handy/wanky type things.... ? Am I wrong?
Mr W always says "why does it feel so much nicer when someone else does it for you?"
I have a theory....
You can't tickle yourself- because you know what to expect.
"Some scientists believe the cerebellum prevents us from tickling ourselves because it can distinguish expected sensations from unexpected sensations."
Taken from here;

I think it's something along the same lines.....the unexpectedness of the sensation ads to the feeling. dunno
Personally, I find a long, laid back mutual masturbation-and-dirty-talk session pretty erotic :rascal:
Quote by janemcc
I just found some stuff here...

:

Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork: Mr McC says wheres does he form the queue??? rolleyesNo mention of the french stick method.
Quote by janemcc
I just found some stuff here...

:

Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork: Mr McC says wheres does he form the queue??? rolleyes
He knows where the queue is and his name's on it! :rotflmao:
Quote by jaymar
I just found some stuff here...

:

Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork: Mr McC says wheres does he form the queue??? rolleyes
He knows where the queue is and his name's on it! :rotflmao:
Do I add my name to the list or take a number like at the butchers? lol
bolt
Dave_Notts
i'd linke to know if there is a way of over riding the gag reflex cause i would love to b able to take more of the cock into my mouth as i love it when other women that can suck mr b's cock and take it all the way into thier mouths it looks real horny to me
also would like some tips for performing oral on ladies as i feel a bit lost in that area might sound daft as i am a female but when confronted with pussy i give it my best shot but not too sure if i'm any good at it and feel daft asking was that good for you lol
Quote by bouncy332
i'd linke to know if there is a way of over riding the gag reflex cause i would love to b able to take more of the cock into my mouth as i love it when other women that can suck mr b's cock and take it all the way into thier mouths it looks real horny to me
also would like some tips for performing oral on ladies as i feel a bit lost in that area might sound daft as i am a female but when confronted with pussy i give it my best shot but not too sure if i'm any good at it and feel daft asking was that good for you lol

Good question bouncy.....
I have often thought about this too....
not sure if it has something to do with the position you have ur head in when ur doing it, as (and I cant remember now what position my head was in) sometimes I can do it and other times I end up nearly chucking.... I duno????
I think with the pussy thing, you just go with the flow of it.... you know what feels nice to you so just experiment and you will 'know' if its having the right effect! wink :wink:
kiss
Off the top of my head- I believe a good way of learning to do this is to lay with your head tilted backwards off the bed, and having the cock "approach" from above. I think I remember reading this alleviates the gag reflex :spit:
Quote by bouncy332
i'd linke to know if there is a way of over riding the gag reflex cause i would love to b able to take more of the cock into my mouth as i love it when other women that can suck mr b's cock and take it all the way into thier mouths it looks real horny to me
also would like some tips for performing oral on ladies as i feel a bit lost in that area might sound daft as i am a female but when confronted with pussy i give it my best shot but not too sure if i'm any good at it and feel daft asking was that good for you lol

Bouncy I did have a theory once that it could be down to having no tonsils this could still be a case, that people without find it easier.
Also when I first start i need to determined the speed I will start gagging if a man starts trusting in the beginning, once I am into it then slow thrusting then build up from there.
Quote by Dave__Notts
I just found some stuff here...

:

Play doh???? :shock: never heard of that one before!
I've never had any complaints in the BJ department but I have to admit with suffering carpal tunnel I tend to ache after 5 or 10 mins of the old hand action, but that doesn't seem to bother Jay, he just shoves it in me gob and is done with it (how romantic does that sound rotflmao )
I'll re read the techniques later when I've more time, I have tried the twist one before, but I've not been told if I'm good or bad at hand jobs...
Maybe I need some willing students? :jagsatwork: Mr McC says wheres does he form the queue??? rolleyes
He knows where the queue is and his name's on it! :rotflmao:
Do I add my name to the list or take a number like at the butchers? lol
bolt
Dave_Notts
cheeky t*at :lol: