My first day on SH, How was your experience?

1 Nov 2011

Before joining this site, we had been together 28 years leading a general life. Then one day after a lot of talking we decided it was time for us to explore the possibility of invited other men into our sexual life.
I was aware of what I wanted and what I was doing but the prospect was scary but also exciting being that my hubby was the only man I had ever had sex with. I also had feelings and thoughts about, are these thoughts normal wanting to explore things sexually with another man. I felt we were odd as it isn't something you can discuss with family and friends.
So we started looking for sites that would link us up with others with the same mindset as us, we knew we wanted to talk to others so looked for a site with chat rooms and then discovered this site and decided to join, I was shaking so much, we were taking the plunge I thought OMG what was I entering into but I could feel the excitement of the unknown.
We paid our money and logged in for the first time and looked to explore the chat rooms. Just to observe what went on in these places. I entered a chat room with hubby by my side hesitantly and with trepidation. Hubby urged me on with support.
As we entered a room all these words started scrolling up, it took me a while (being a complete novice on chatting online in any form) to realise it was people chatting in a chat room. loon

I said to hubby what do I do now. So I thought I would type Hi all we are new and just joined for the first time today, please be gentle with me. Mrs minx typing and hubby by my side lol

Realising now that is the worse thing I could have said. :lol:
I couldn't understand why all these people started whispering me and wanted to chat to someone they never knew.
Looking back I was so naive in those days but being here has taught me a lot. Not only that we are not alone in the world with our thoughts but also there is a whole new world within the walls of SH to be discovered and if you ignore the fools there are a lot of nice friendly, normal pervy people about.

1 Nov 2011

So long ago now that I hardly remember. I was an internet rookie, doing what guys do on the net, looking for some pervy pics of girls when the search engine (didn't even know what that was at the time) came up with swinging heaven......so I created a profile and logged on. I never really had any great desire to meet people for sexual reasons and still don't, although I have of course met quite a few members, some as playmates and others on a purely social level. Like yourselves I discovered that there are lots of genuine friendly people doing whatever it is that works for them.
Taking care and using the site sensibly offers many people the opportunity to develop genuine friendships and to enrich their social life by adding an extra dimension and spicing up their relationships.

1 Nov 2011

We were already swingers and had been playing with others in clubs for a few years before joining the site.
We only joined because I thought it would be horny to shag on cam, so our first day on SH was fantabulous! ... straight into chat and got on with the task in hand! lol

I got pretty hooked on chat and we did used to play on cam a lot and had loads of meets from the site. It took me months before I discovered that there was a forum too! rolleyes

We still do play on cam but no where near as much, as we've made so many friends here that I'm usually far too busy gabbing!

1 Nov 2011

Quote by Funlovers2009
It took me months before I discovered that there was a forum too!

I'm going to have to have a word with admin again........we had set the forum to "hide" from your profile. There must have been a bug in the system bolt

Dave_Notts

1 Nov 2011

Quote by Dave__Notts
It took me months before I discovered that there was a forum too!

I'm going to have to have a word with admin again........we had set the forum to "hide" from your profile. There must have been a bug in the system bolt

Dave_Notts
You can run, but you can't hide! Mwah ha ha ha ha!! lol

1 Nov 2011

found this site..knowing nothing about swinging..thought woohoo..this is ace..and so first night sent out 200 replies to ads saying
.." hello I'm dean . Fancy a Shag ? "
These were sent all over the country as well from Scotland to London and all in-between...lol
Surprise Surprise i didn't get a single reply....and so decided that maybe another form of appraoch was required..lol

1 Nov 2011

I like others found this site by a chance in a chat on MSN.
I've joined other regional sites, left most banned from one!
I've made some great friends on here, some cyber a few I've met and continue to do so.

1 Nov 2011

Quote by deancannock
found this site..knowing nothing about swinging..thought woohoo..this is ace..and so first night sent out 200 replies to ads saying
.." hello I'm dean . Fancy a Shag ? "
These were sent all over the country as well from Scotland to London and all in-between...lol
Surprise Surprise i didn't get a single reply....and so decided that maybe another form of appraoch was required..lol

How come I keep getting "Hello, I'm Dean..........Fancy a fuck" in my inbox every other day.....
ahhhhhhhh thats the change, shag to fuck bolt

Dave_Notts

1 Nov 2011

Do you know, I can't remember!
lol

Must've liked it though wink

1 Nov 2011

Quote by Theladyisaminx
My first day on SH, How was your experience?

Painfully slow sad

I had a few brushes with the wilder side of sex and wanted to check out the 'scene'
(and have a perv at the same time :rascal smile

I checked out a few profile pics, the gallery and even popped into chat if I remember correctly.
Problem was........ 56kbs dial up internet
So slow and with my long, slow and frequent (back then!) wanking and 5p / min connection my first phone bill after joining SH cost me a fortune!!

Quote by Dave__Notts
It took me months before I discovered that there was a forum too!

I'm going to have to have a word with admin again........we had set the forum to "hide" from your profile. There must have been a bug in the system bolt

Dave_Notts
Admin know which side their bread is buttered dave, forums are searchable in google and viewable to the public.
Which avatar entices more people to part with the membership dosh
Dave_notts:
'That dog is gonna bite that mouses head off' :shock:
or
Funlovers2009
'fuck me i could die happy between them boots and thighs'
:grin:
Took me 5 years to find the forums fun - was that your doing too eh dave?? :lol2:

2 Nov 2011

Dont remember much but didnt look at the forum and never went into chat from memory. We placed an ad. We got a few replys fairly quickly including one local guy who said simply "Can I help you" We replied be silly with "With what?" To which the reply was "But can I help you" more dribble from us replied to with "But can I help you". Think the guy sent that 4-5 times before he gave up lol

2 Nov 2011

I came
They saw
They wanted................. rolleyes

2 Nov 2011

Quote by markz
I came
They saw
They wanted.................

Surely that should be
They saw
They wanted
I came dunno

2 Nov 2011

Quote by Big_Fraser
My first day on SH, How was your experience?

Painfully slow sad

I had a few brushes with the wilder side of sex and wanted to check out the 'scene'
(and have a perv at the same time :rascal smile

I checked out a few profile pics, the gallery and even popped into chat if I remember correctly.
Problem was........ 56kbs dial up internet
So slow and with my long, slow and frequent (back then!) wanking and 5p / min connection my first phone bill after joining SH cost me a fortune!!

Quote by Dave__Notts
It took me months before I discovered that there was a forum too!

I'm going to have to have a word with admin again........we had set the forum to "hide" from your profile. There must have been a bug in the system bolt

Dave_Notts
Admin know which side their bread is buttered dave, forums are searchable in google and viewable to the public.
Which avatar entices more people to part with the membership dosh
Dave_notts:
'That dog is gonna bite that mouses head off' :shock:
or
Funlovers2009
'fuck me i could die happy between them boots and thighs'
:grin:
Took me 5 years to find the forums fun - was that your doing too eh dave?? :lol2:
You must of discovered the door in the cellar on your exploration of SH, the one that when you walk past you get dragged in.
That was Dave, didn't you feel the force?

2 Nov 2011

Quote by Theladyisaminx
You must of discovered the door in the cellar on your exploration of SH, the one that when you walk past you get dragged in.
That was Dave, didn't you feel the force?

If you want to call it "the force", then I don't mind............just feel it innocent

Dave_Notts

2 Nov 2011

Quote by Theladyisaminx
Before joining this site, we had been together 28 years leading a general life. Then one day after a lot of talking we decided it was time for us to explore the possibility of invited other men into our sexual life.
I was aware of what I wanted and what I was doing but the prospect was scary but also exciting being that my hubby was the only man I had ever had sex with. I also had feelings and thoughts about, are these thoughts normal wanting to explore things sexually with another man. I felt we were odd as it isn't something you can discuss with family and friends.
So we started looking for sites that would link us up with others with the same mindset as us, we knew we wanted to talk to others so looked for a site with chat rooms and then discovered this site and decided to join, I was shaking so much, we were taking the plunge I thought OMG what was I entering into but I could feel the excitement of the unknown.
We paid our money and logged in for the first time and looked to explore the chat rooms. Just to observe what went on in these places. I entered a chat room with hubby by my side hesitantly and with trepidation. Hubby urged me on with support.
As we entered a room all these words started scrolling up, it took me a while (being a complete novice on chatting online in any form) to realise it was people chatting in a chat room.
I said to hubby what do I do now. So I thought I would type Hi all we are new and just joined for the first time today, please be gentle with me. Mrs minx typing and hubby by my side
Realising now that is the worse thing I could have said. :lol:
I couldn't understand why all these people started whispering me and wanted to chat to someone they never knew.
Looking back I was so naive in those days but being here has taught me a lot. Not only that we are not alone in the world with our thoughts but also there is a whole new world within the walls of SH to be discovered and if you ignore the fools there are a lot of nice friendly, normal pervy people about.

Our passage here was not so different to yours, only less years together before hand