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Hi, everyone.
I am new to this lifestyle.
Have met many like-minded people already.
Very mixed emotions at the moment.
Excited and nervous all at the same time.
Partner and I have our first play next week with another couple.
Will give parties and/or clubs a miss for the moment.
We just want to tread gently at first!
Any advice and/or experiences for a first timer would be very welcome.
Many thanks.
Hi and welcome from me - I hope you enjoy it in here.
I was just about to ask the obvious question, but did some research of my own instead:
A koeksuster or koeksister is a South African syrup-coated doughnut in a twisted or braided shape (like a plait). They are prepared by deep-frying in oil then dipping into cold sugar syrup.

Welcome, doughnuts! lol
Mike.
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Welcome, doughnuts! lol

Mmmm...doughnuts!! :lickface:
In that case, you're most certainly welcome here! wave
~Reese! surprised
P.S. to Mike: I'll fire up the deep-fat fryer if you'll prepare the sugar syrup. ;)
Hey guys, thanks for the warm welcome.
And yes Mike you are correct. That is exactly what a koeksuster is.
If you ever get the chance you should try them. They are simply delicious. No pun intended! LOL
PS: I have been likened to one of these do'nuts as my syrup is sweet to the taste, hence my username.
Welcome hope you have more luck then us :cry:
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Welcome hope you have more luck then us :cry:

Blimey.....come on you've got to be more positive then that!!
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Hi, everyone.
I am new to this lifestyle.
Have met many like-minded people already.
Very mixed emotions at the moment.
Excited and nervous all at the same time.
Partner and I have our first play next week with another couple.
Will give parties and/or clubs a miss for the moment.
We just want to tread gently at first!
Any advice and/or experiences for a first timer would be very welcome.
Many thanks.

Why give clubs a miss. We think they are the best way to get involved in swinging as there is absolutely no pressure to do anything and the atmosphere is very chilled.
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Welcome, doughnuts! lol

Mmmm...doughnuts!! :lickface:
In that case, you're most certainly welcome here! wave
~Reese! surprised
P.S. to Mike: I'll fire up the deep-fat fryer if you'll prepare the sugar syrup. ;)
As long as it's vegetable fat only.....
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PS: I have been likened to one of these do'nuts as my syrup is sweet to the taste, hence my username.

you can get people to suck your wig :shock: mrs davej wont even hold my hand when I'm wearing mine.
Hi Donuts biggrin
As I mentioned on a previous thread, we tried a 'smaller' party at a private house for our first time and it worked out really well, the lovely hostess (who could see we were bricking it) introduced to a similar couple and we hit it off with them straight away and the other couples they introduced us to. Really glad we went-so don't be afraid-parties are the best!!!! :welcome:
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PS: I have been likened to one of these do'nuts as my syrup is sweet to the taste, hence my username.

you can get people to suck your wig :shock: mrs davej wont even hold my hand when I'm wearing mine.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Hiya Koeksuster wave Warm welcome from me too, have fun biggrin