Licac Hun, I only just saw this.
I am in some ways glad that I have been absent dealing with family stuff as it would surley have sickened and disappointed me if I had seen what has been hinted at.
I cant tell you how to handle your situation as you are the only one who knows how you feel. All I can do is tell you how I have handled something similar.
I know of two people here on SH that are regulars who do not care for me. At first I was a little bothered but then I realised that it was ok because to be fair you can't make everyone like you. If I felt I had to try and make people like me then they are not worth the effort (if that makes sense). I have seen these two individuals at different functions and had no problem being polite to them in passing as I am rather past the high school stage of scratching eyes out. Its kind of like in a work situation. You dont always like everyone you work with but you are able to deal with them when you come across them in a polite and professional manner. And you know what? I know that I felt better knowing I had the maturity to handle it that way rather than follow in their footsteps and made snide comments on the side.
I am sorry that this has affected you in this way and please remember (as someone esle said) for the one that doesnt like you there are no doubt a hundred that do. Plus how am I gonna get to perv you if you dont go to munches?
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As this person is much more popular than I am & also that I now couldnt face going to a munch where I thought I wasnt liked/wanted I have decided that it should be me that stays out of the forum & away from munches. (hey its not like anyone will miss my posts anyway lol)
Lilac, why should it be you that stays away from anything? Have you done something so terrible that you need to hide away ? Judging from the rest of your post the answer is 'no'. Just because you perceive this other member to be more popular than you doesn't mean you have to give up doing anything!! ( who decides who is 'popular' anyway??)
You have been here long enough to know that some people are only happy when making others miserable. I hope you can find it in yourself to rise above this bullshit and post when you like and attend whatever social you want to.
I know it's easy for me to say, because I am not on the receiving end but I would hate to see the bastards win.
Minx x x
Thank you for all the replies, good advice & the many PM's Ive had 
I've had a little time out of the forum but I've got to admit, I did miss it, and you are all right, why should I miss out!?!
I have spent time on other parts of the site, some of which I hadnt even noticed before :shock: :P in my haste to get on to the forum, but will continue to check them out from now on :bounce:
:D
I've had a little time out of the forum but I've got to admit, I did miss it, and you are all right, why should I miss out!?!
I have spent time on other parts of the site, some of which I hadnt even noticed before :shock: :P in my haste to get on to the forum, but will continue to check them out from now on :bounce:
:D
Quote by lilacgem
Thank you for all the replies, good advice & the many PM's Ive had
I've had a little time out of the forum but I've got to admit, I did miss it, and you are all right, why should I miss out!?!I have spent time on other parts of the site, some of which I hadnt even noticed before :shock: :P in my haste to get on to the forum, but will continue to check them out from now on :bounce:
:D
Hello sweety,
didn't realise what's been going on as i'm not here as often as i'd like at mo. busy boy!
Feck what anyone thinks girl!
Life's Way too short to worry about things like that. I'm not trying to put how that makes you feel into a nothing, but I for one know you are a great gal!
Jeez, if you need some advice on how to piss people off then call me now, my number is 0800 (do I give a shit you dick wart). ok, so I made that one up. But seriously tho, all these luverly folk who've replied here give testimony to the fact that, nobody can please everybody, all of the time.
Be you, enjoy and...oh is the kettle on?
Orgasminator
i wonder what "other" parts of the site youve been "looking" at :shock:
glad to see you back anyway
glad to see you back anyway
Thanks Wenchy 