My regrets

26 Jan 2006

Quote by HuxleyNSusie
Well I thought that SH was starting to weather the storm of the takeover and the site re-hash, and Steph has always been the one with the sensible welcomes and comments. In my eyes, Steph has supported the site 100% however badly things were, and my God haven`t they, but it seems she makes one little mistake and she gets kicked in the teeth. It seems, however, that the admin haven`t learnt their lesson from when they took over the site.

what mistake ??? they have more paying clients here than ever THEY dont need you they only went wrong in the eyes of swingers from a corporate point of view this is a roaring sucess and I salute them .Your still under the impression they wanted a swingers site .
Yep, money talks why do they need the "Oldies" when they have the chance to gain more from a "SEX SITE" .
Swinging in Swinging Heaven is no longer.
phredd

26 Jan 2006

Quote by easyease
well the people in charge are keeping very tight lipped.....

they have no obligation to explain anything.

26 Jan 2006

Quote by PoloLady
well the people in charge are keeping very tight lipped.....

they(we) have no obligation to explain anything.
Did you miss that word out ??
phredd

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Fred aka Medic 1
well the people in charge are keeping very tight lipped.....

they(we) have no obligation to explain anything.
Did you miss that word out ??
phredd
no rolleyes

26 Jan 2006

do people actually pay then these days? i must admit i havent been keeping up with things around here a great deal , why do they pay? whats steph done , bloody hell she could hardly be described as trouble could she?
back to the wrats cave
wrats
xx

26 Jan 2006

Quote by naked-cleaner
This will not end well at all.

you better believe it mad

What can we do Pete ?
any site is made or broken by it popularity and reputation, ................ however, i think we need to get the whole story first.
despite being angered by this, i still have to get the other side.
and am still waiting ............................................................. dunno

there does seem to be a missing link here :shock:

26 Jan 2006

Quote by HuxleyNSusie
Just one question - how do you get the 'after nearly three years' ? The site hasn't even been up that long has it? You show as a member since May 2004.

Thats being a bit picky Bev
not really I prefer accurate information. Something this entire thread needs
Steph was a member of the chat room well before she started using the forums. but yes, it I also feel it was being picky, when that is not what we are here to talk about.

26 Jan 2006

Intersting to see that there is NO response from Martin_M to this post.
Come on out Martin wherever you are.
Unless your chicken? Surely not.

26 Jan 2006

Steph I truly am sorry things are like this for you as I guess you must be pretty upset. If I was near I would give you a big hug as you have always been a good friend to me.
DD xxx

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Pete_sw
This will not end well at all.

you better believe it mad

What can we do Pete ?
any site is made or broken by it popularity and reputation, ................ however, i think we need to get the whole story first.
despite being angered by this, i still have to get the other side.
and am still waiting ............................................................. dunno

there does seem to be a missing link here :shock:
Pete >>>
Without using my FT 290 will you read your incomming mail lol
phredd

26 Jan 2006

i must say its a silly move to go kicking ladies off the site. shouldnt you be trying to encourage them to visit?

26 Jan 2006

So... come on folks... whats the story... dunno

There obviously is one... or why would Steph have started this.... confused

Are the Mods/Admin going to grace us with their side of the events :dunno:
Doubt it.. but worth a shot eh rolleyes

26 Jan 2006

Why are Mods being dragged into this? What the fuck has it got to do with them? This was between Steph and Martin, who is Admin and not a Mod. Don't tar everyone with the same brush.
Mal

26 Jan 2006

I agree, let's not go off on a "we all be doomed" number yet again. It's good that until we know the whole story, some of us are keeping our feet on the ground ..or in Judy's case, our ballet shoes.

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Mal
Why are Mods being dragged into this? What the fuck has it got to do with them? This was between Steph and Martin, who is Admin and not a Mod. Don't tar everyone with the same brush.
Mal

Thought u had packed in
Or did i miss that too

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Fred aka Medic 1
This will not end well at all.

you better believe it mad

What can we do Pete ?
any site is made or broken by it popularity and reputation, ................ however, i think we need to get the whole story first.
despite being angered by this, i still have to get the other side.
and am still waiting ............................................................. dunno

there does seem to be a missing link here :shock:
Pete >>>
Without using my FT 290 will you read your incomming mail lol
phredd
as usual, my pm system isnt working Fred ........ pete_ please
dah di dah

26 Jan 2006

Quote by tattyxpx
So... come on folks... whats the story...
There obviously is one... or why would Steph have started this....
Are the Mods/Admin going to grace us with their side of the events :dunno:
Doubt it.. but worth a shot eh

Why should they explain? It has never been the custom, with the exception of DishWasher - but then that involved threats of violence.
Having said that it is a bit unusual for someone to be given notice to quit :? You'd almost expect them to post something to stir-up debate.

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Mal
Why are Mods being dragged into this? What the fuck has it got to do with them? This was between Steph and Martin, who is Admin and not a Mod. Don't tar everyone with the same brush.
Mal

OI calm down calm down.. in ma best scouse accent... I just thought that maybe... ok not a hope in hells chance.. but I just thought that maybe the Admin had maybe had some issues with Steph and one of the remaining Mods, could have stepped in... that's all Mal...
rolleyes

sheesh
I do know that there is a huge difference between Admin/Mods... I was just half hoping that the Admin had started talking a tad more to the Mods . Simple as.. No badness was meant by me asking IF a Mod or Admin could explain what was going on....
Consider me well and truly Mal'd off :jagsatwork:

26 Jan 2006

Ah, you love me really!! lol

Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

26 Jan 2006

Even without a full explanation of whats going on its certainly got the bickering and backbiting off the ground eh?

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Mal
Ah, you love me really!!
Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

Just turn around drop yer trousers and show me yer arse hunny wink

26 Jan 2006

Quote by tattyxpx
Ah, you love me really!!
Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

Just turn around drop yer trousers and show me yer arse hunny wink

Sorry babes
He's mine tonight :twisted: :twisted:

26 Jan 2006

This seems a personal thing from the site admin rather than a rule break or anything. Steph indicated she was asked to leave the site. Well SH admin if you want to shoot yourself in the foot don't let me stop you.
Steph is someone I consider a friend, but as can be seen from the tone of some posts she has some enimies here as well. However from what I know of her she organises a mean munch, looks out for newbees, and is generally a positive organiser in the community. So if you want her to go elsewhere then that is SH's loss.

26 Jan 2006

Steph I hope you can sort it out but you are obviously not banned if you can still post on here.
And ............. I am sorry but I cant believe you would be asked to leave for posting something they dont like .............. just look at all the insults that have been thrown at them over the last few months ............. they havent kicked or banned any of us for voicing an opinion.......... so there must be a little more to it than is being said. IMHO.
Also ........... where does it say we are in a democracy ?
The Admin dont need to tell us anything ......... the only person they need to tell is Steph.
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

26 Jan 2006

Quote by HuxleyNSusie
Well I thought that SH was starting to weather the storm of the takeover and the site re-hash, and Steph has always been the one with the sensible welcomes and comments. In my eyes, Steph has supported the site 100% however badly things were, and my God haven`t they, but it seems she makes one little mistake and she gets kicked in the teeth. It seems, however, that the admin haven`t learnt their lesson from when they took over the site.

what mistake ??? they have more paying clients here than ever THEY dont need you they only went wrong in the eyes of swingers from a corporate point of view this is a roaring sucess and I salute them .Your still under the impression they wanted a swingers site .
HuxleyNSusie,
I suggest you read my reply again. I said that STEPH made the mistake, not the Admin.

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Sarah
Ah, you love me really!!
Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

Just turn around drop yer trousers and show me yer arse hunny wink

Sorry babes
He's mine tonight :twisted: :twisted:
Ok Ok you win rolleyes

it'll be the rabbit again for me then :lol:
:kiss:

26 Jan 2006

Quote by blonde
Steph I hope you can sort it out but you are obviously not banned if you can still post on here.
And ............. I am sorry but I cant believe you would be asked to leave for posting something they dont like .............. just look at all the insults that have been thrown at them over the last few months ............. they havent kicked or banned any of us for voicing an opinion.......... so there must be a little more to it than is being said. IMHO.
Also ........... where does it say we are in a democracy ?
The Admin dont need to tell us anything ......... the only person they need to tell is Steph.
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Um I can name a few who were banned... but not going to as I still look in here occasionally to catchup with my friends still here, and I not giving anyone any excuses to ban me smile

26 Jan 2006

Quote by tattyxpx
Ah, you love me really!!
Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

Just turn around drop yer trousers and show me yer arse hunny wink

Sorry babes
He's mine tonight :twisted: :twisted:
Ok Ok you win rolleyes

it'll be the rabbit again for me then :lol:
:kiss:
You could come and join us>>>>>>>>>>> but I also do have vanilla friends staying at the moment.................... :twisted:

26 Jan 2006

Quote by Sarah
Ah, you love me really!!
Mal
(Not a Mod!! :lol: )

Just turn around drop yer trousers and show me yer arse hunny wink

Sorry babes
He's mine tonight :twisted: :twisted:
Ok Ok you win rolleyes

it'll be the rabbit again for me then :lol:
:kiss:
You could come and join us>>>>>>>>>>> but I also do have vanilla friends staying at the moment.................... :twisted:
Oh vanilla.... I s'pose i could be the strawberry swirl :giggle:

26 Jan 2006

tatty, sarah, mal.............. can we join in if we bring the chocolate sauce ?
(in a vanilla way, of course) :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx