hey, my name is adam.. now i got a bit of a problem..
i never get anyone interested in my add, not even email replies.. and i have such a gd personality, frienly, honest loving.. yet no one seems to be able to help.. i put how old i am, what i look like, what im looking for but not a interest from women at all
can anyone give me any ideas or help??
or even any offers around lincs..hehe
any help is appreciated..
adam
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need serious help.. anyone out their/
Your ad has been viewed by 5 people and you haven't updated it for 18 months, therefore it must be right at the bottom of a huge mountain of other ads, many will have more info on about themsleves.
you expect someone to come and pick you up and take you somewhere else as you can't travel or accommodate - not exactly a bonus for them is it?
and on top of that, your ad is in Men seeking Couples and you're looking for a single woman! And why no kids? What's that got to do with you if they have kids? You're not moving in with them!
In fact all you've told them is your age and where you live, not great selling points, I'm afraid.
It might sound a bit rough, but you did ask and as you already know it isn't working, you know you need to do something to improve it.
You'll get some more advice from others, i'm sure, but we're not here just to pick holes in you, but you have to make an effort yourself if you hope to achieve anything here.
good luck!
Mal
im a 18 yr old man, living in spalding of a medium build.i am looking for a spalding female who is single and with no kids, i enjoy ALL KINDS OF "FUN" AND WAITING FOR YOUR CONTROL.i could get to u if u live in spalding I CANT ACCOMADATE OR TRAVEL SO U WOULD HAVE TO TRAVEL TO ME, SOZ BUT IT WOULD BE WORTH YOUR WHILE
you expect someone to come and pick you up and take you somewhere else as you can't travel or accommodate - not exactly a bonus for them is it?
and on top of that, your ad is in Men seeking Couples and you're looking for a single woman! And why no kids? What's that got to do with you if they have kids? You're not moving in with them!
In fact all you've told them is your age and where you live, not great selling points, I'm afraid.
It might sound a bit rough, but you did ask and as you already know it isn't working, you know you need to do something to improve it.
You'll get some more advice from others, i'm sure, but we're not here just to pick holes in you, but you have to make an effort yourself if you hope to achieve anything here.
good luck!
Mal
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you seem to have covered all your groups for who you will meet...just to give you a idea what you up against on here....
the figures below are taken after going into the "photo adds" and selecting search....all the figures below are within a 20 mile radius of us and we are a cpl mile from newcastle-upon-tyne.
couples seeking men 8 pages
men seeking couples 34 pages
women seeking men 3 pages
men seeking women 34 pages
men seeking men 20 pages
men seeking groups 4 pages
it's a dog eat dog world out there ...and it's heavily stacked against the single male..
you really do have to stand out from the crowd.....the forums are a good start, so are the chatrooms ....you get in what you put out .
the figures below are taken after going into the "photo adds" and selecting search....all the figures below are within a 20 mile radius of us and we are a cpl mile from newcastle-upon-tyne.
couples seeking men 8 pages
men seeking couples 34 pages
women seeking men 3 pages
men seeking women 34 pages
men seeking men 20 pages
men seeking groups 4 pages
it's a dog eat dog world out there ...and it's heavily stacked against the single male..
you really do have to stand out from the crowd.....the forums are a good start, so are the chatrooms ....you get in what you put out .
Hi Adam :welcome: to the forums.
If I were a fella, and this is just my opinion, I wouldn't even bother with the adverts. The odds are so against you, that even if you matched perfectly with what someone was looking for, you might be overlooked just because there are so many ads for people to view.
I would suggest getting your name seen by posting on these forums, people will then get to know you as a person and see what a nice fella you are.
Good luck :thumbup:
If I were a fella, and this is just my opinion, I wouldn't even bother with the adverts. The odds are so against you, that even if you matched perfectly with what someone was looking for, you might be overlooked just because there are so many ads for people to view.
I would suggest getting your name seen by posting on these forums, people will then get to know you as a person and see what a nice fella you are.
Good luck :thumbup:
