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Unknown User
Hi,
I need some help/advice.
I posted an ad online looking for "lessons" and got a response that was genuine. We met and I think we got on. Now second date.
The question is I like her as a person, but I don't know how how to pursue. I like her as a friend and she is actually gf material. We didn't even talk about why we were meeting and I am not sure if I should bring it up.
Should I continue meeting her and hope for a gf or just meet for "fun".
And I am stuck because I don't really know if I should be treating these meetings as dates or just as a casual meeting with a friend. e.e should I kiss her etc?
Any advice would be great!
Thanks
Sarah
Sex God
Quote by abloke6969
Hi,
I need some help/advice.
I posted an ad online looking for "lessons" and got a response that was genuine. We met and I think we got on. Now second date.
The question is I like her as a person, but I don't know how how to pursue. I like her as a friend and she is actually gf material. We didn't even talk about why we were meeting and I am not sure if I should bring it up.
Should I continue meeting her and hope for a gf or just meet for "fun".
And I am stuck because I don't really know if I should be treating these meetings as dates or just as a casual meeting with a friend. e.e should I kiss her etc?
Any advice would be great!
Thanks

What type of lessons did you advertise for?
How much are tution fees?
What are her terms and conditions of these lessons?
Unknown User
it was oral lessons... and no price, just mutual fun
Funlovers2009
Sex God
Quote by abloke6969
it was oral lessons... and no price, just mutual fun

I would say that if that is what she replied to then that was what she expected. If you are meeting her again then I would assume that she is still meeting you with regards to the oral lessons. If she was genuine with her reply to your ad then I doubt she will be offended by sexual advances towards her. I would assume that she may be more offended if you mention the feelings you have for her.
If you arrange another meet after that then maybe you are going more towards the fuck buddy thing but who knows where that may lead to.
Remember that this is a swinging site and people meet for mutual fun, not to find a gf/bf, although it happens.
Funlovers2009
Sex God
Quote by Ste_n_Kez
Same answer as Funlovers, now get ya cock out and get to your lesson :jagsatwork:69position:thumbup:

:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
duncanlondon
Sex God
even if you have met on a site like this, there are still people who will see this as a springboard for establishing a conventional relationship.
they could give you the swing of your life, then shut up shop and expect you to hang up your saddle.
Derek_kelp
Sexpert
I'd suggest stick with plan A and then if you both get on/off, progress to the next exciting adventure.
Do this half a dozen times and you'll both work out if you wanna keep going and if you wanna add extra dimensions too.
Then the world is both your oysters (or lobsters) wink