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Need some help from females/couples please
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Now HLB- you are the sort of couple I would like to attract- so what appeals and what doesn't?
(I don't mean the obvious as to whether or not I look nice, just about the profile etc?)
OK I've just been and had a look at you profile.
Firstly
As a single bloke on here I think pics are a must. (I know what you mean about protecting your identity, but there's no reason not to have a nice torso shot or a pic with your face blurred out).
When I'm looking through ads or profiles I always click the button for "profiles with pics only" and I'm sure many other people do the same so they wouldn't even get to see yours.
Secondly
You're married - I'm not judging, but I personally choose not to meet people who are cheating on their partners and I know some other people on this site take the same view. So this rules you out for quite a few people.
Thirdly
Your profile and ad text are quite short and in all honestly a bit depressing. It reads like you want sympathy for a crap marriage and doesn't say a lot about what you have to offer. With so many single guys on here, you're not giving people a reason to want to contact you.
Lastly
I personally like confident, bubbly people who are looking for fun sexy times. As it says in my profile, I don't necessarily have to have a lot in common, but I do have to feel a connection.
I know not everyone looks for these qualities, but from reading your profile I don't feel I know anything about you, your personality what you like, what you don't like etc.
Hope that helps :thumbup:
I know I'm not a couple but I agree with what HLB says. PLus, having looked at your previous posts, there does seem to be a certain amount of desperation there. May I ask, what were your expectations when you joined the sight?
H.x
Quote by PoloLady
And whilst there is indeed plenty of room for bantery bollox – it can become (still selecting suitable word) when involving a small group and allowed to rapidly multiple in a confined space
But that is a whole different thread
I have to agree with that.
But for me personally, I take note of the person that started the thread. (That can be their subsequent posts, or an absence of further posting) and (forgive me for this) people for whom I "have time" or respect, and those I'm "forced" to take notice of.
But when it comes from someone that seems to be on a "downer" about the place, and makes it clear they have "no time" for those that enjoy it, and openly bad-mouth those folk - I tend to (try to) ignore them. Sometimes I fail.
- is that normal - does HLB's willy tingle too? 
Sex God
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
I have a great picture of my willy. :shock:
Just a shame I'm not allow to post it on here
Feel free to PM it tho' HLB
Quote by the_Laird
I have a great picture of my willy. :shock:
Just a shame I'm not allow to post it on here
Feel free to PM it tho' HLB
Bollocks to it.
I could probably do with a break from the site for a while.
Picture of her willy ?
Ready Dawnie ?????????
Let's see who beats ya, (and with which button)
Thanks particularly to HLB/Dammie, points all noted.
Some thigns you can't do much about, but the profile I certainly can and I'll update it with more info etc.
Thanks again guys, whilst there was (as was pointed out) a tremendous amount bollox and shite, there were also some nuggets of wisdom and grains of sanity!
Cheers
Some thigns you can't do much about, but the profile I certainly can and I'll update it with more info etc.
Thanks again guys, whilst there was (as was pointed out) a tremendous amount bollox and shite, there were also some nuggets of wisdom and grains of sanity!
Cheers
