(if you know what i mean).Can anyone help with good ways to relax and stop the nerves get the better of me.
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hi clare and steve,
drink may help but can also ruin it if you get to drunk.
something which has helped me in different situations is a thing called rescue remedy.
It,s a natural product i think?? and is sold in superdrug the chemists. You can buy it in a small mouth spray thing , much like breath freshner.
worth a go , i know of a lot of people its helped in driving tests, exams etc.
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drink may help but can also ruin it if you get to drunk.
something which has helped me in different situations is a thing called rescue remedy.
It,s a natural product i think?? and is sold in superdrug the chemists. You can buy it in a small mouth spray thing , much like breath freshner.
worth a go , i know of a lot of people its helped in driving tests, exams etc.
xxxxfemxxxxxxxx
Maybe you are just worried about if you can be up to the mark? just have a good laugh before hand, and maybe agree to have a casual petting session? It will relieve the tension and make you less worried? besides which i think you are doing ok, and try to relax...FORGET ANY BOOZE because it does NOT work for everyone?
I know someone who has similar problems in public, which is a dreadful shame as they never fail to excel the rest of the time. 
Once, in a threesome that was never meant to be a threesome, it wasn't a problem - undoubtably because there wasn't the same pressure to perform. I suggested that next time he either wears his restraint until he gets uncomfortable, or a blindfold - one of those could work well, I think. ;)
Mandy
Once, in a threesome that was never meant to be a threesome, it wasn't a problem - undoubtably because there wasn't the same pressure to perform. I suggested that next time he either wears his restraint until he gets uncomfortable, or a blindfold - one of those could work well, I think. ;)
Mandy
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you need to look deep into your soul and find out where the nerves originate I suggest you start with your childhood :P
well Claire N Steve - two things help me relax -
1 - Vodka and Coke with a couple of pro plus caffeine tablets. I'm not talking a bottle of vodka here - but two doubles nicely ralxes and chills you - the proplus then stops you being sleepy ralaxed - if you know what I mean!
2 - A nice warm Jacuzzi to seat 6 also helps (handily I have one!)
and finally something which does not help me relax is the thought that I'm in Grantham too - just like you guys! Now that is definitely stopping me from relaxing - and I love your avatar too- I love glasses!
XX
1 - Vodka and Coke with a couple of pro plus caffeine tablets. I'm not talking a bottle of vodka here - but two doubles nicely ralxes and chills you - the proplus then stops you being sleepy ralaxed - if you know what I mean!
2 - A nice warm Jacuzzi to seat 6 also helps (handily I have one!)
and finally something which does not help me relax is the thought that I'm in Grantham too - just like you guys! Now that is definitely stopping me from relaxing - and I love your avatar too- I love glasses!
XX
Sex God
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Hi all,the problem is still there and is starting to become a real pain.I didnt drink to much and was extemely turned on,but nothing was happening down there.
I'm starting to run out of options,is viagra worth trying or is there a better,safer trusted option?
Cheers Steve
What about "pre-match" porn or maybe at the other end of the scale try pre-event calming exercises, like muscle tensing or deep breathing or try a warm bath or listening to music (nothing too upbeat though).
Do a search for relaxation techniques as I think the problem is that you're starting to put pressure on yourself. If this is the case drinking definately won't help.
