New guys :-(

5 Nov 2006

It's a bit like this mate - either your face fits or it doesn't. Unless your prepared to bugger about in chat rooms and join in with all the clique activity in clubs, agree with all the "good" people in the forums etc then your wasting your time. We've found that out through bitter experience ....
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The one above seems to be the closest I have come across in the replies without taking the arseholes into account. I asked a valid question and only asked for some advice, not some wide boy being a twat, we can all do that. Also my thoughts on the whole scene are not only made up from the 6 days I have been a member this time round, but also from the last time I was on this site over a year ago. The quote at the start of this seems to still bear true. I didn't expect to use my "voucher" easily but also did not expect to be pretty much ignored. Thanks for the genuine replies, advice taken on board. To the wide boys, just stay wide ok worship

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Maybe we are just quite good judges of a particular situation and yes the face has to fit and people have to conform on this site and any other site of this type or they simply get nowhere.
We are here to swing, not follow like sheep, slapping each others back with mutual praise. We're not into all the chatroom crap and the nice mealy mouth meetings, we're here to have sex with strangers - simple as that !! And contrary to what people may think, we have managed quite well
Believe it or not we have met a few folks from here who don't post, don't go into chatrooms and don't bugger about, they just meet for sex and that's the end of it, but it seems all to much of a culture that a person or a couple is judged by how many times he or she sends a post or goes into a chat room - Crap !!!!!!!
Nice one m8 :rascal:

5 Nov 2006

Smooth n hard, I was just going to pm you directing you to a couple of threads which may have given you an idea of the types of things to put in your profile etc, but as you have definately 'spit your dummy out' I wont even bother rolleyes

5 Nov 2006

Looks like someones spending his voucher on a cosy night with his favourite hand :wanker:

5 Nov 2006

Quote by smooth-n-hard
Hiya, I am deeply dissapointed in the reaction and response towards my postings and sent emails on the site. I personally have sent out 36 emails, 13 of them have been read and only two replies (saying "no thanks") . I did not expect any miracles but in the same breath I did not expect to bassically be ignored :cry: . Two new guys "bluenose" and myself are of the same feeling I belive, that it is turning out to be a waste of time :shock: . Maybe we are doing something wrong! I would appreciate a guiding hand if it is possible from someone who is more experienced in this site . We are only out for a bit of harmless fun, is that not what this is about : .Many thanks for reading this and take care please

Yep.... you came here expecting it to just drop in your lap :roll:

5 Nov 2006

With translation....

Quote by smooth-n-hard
It's a bit like this mate - either your face fits or it doesn't. (if your pig ugly and thought this was an easy place to get a shag â€“ forget it â€“ they actually have standards!)
Unless your prepared to bugger about in chat rooms and join in with all the clique activity in clubs, agree with all the "good" people in the forums etc then your wasting your time. We've found that out through bitter experience .... (I couldnâ€™t believe it when I found out there are people here who actually wanted to talk and get a general feel for a person before dropping their pants)
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The one above seems to be the closest I have come across in the replies without taking the arseholes into account. I asked a valid question and only asked for some advice, not some wide boy being a twat, we can all do that. (I have been made to look a twat through my ignorance so now my lack of intellect will make me resort to just name calling)
Also my thoughts on the whole scene are not only made up from the 6 days I have been a member this time round, but also from the last time I was on this site over a year ago. The quote at the start of this seems to still bear true. I didn't expect to use my "voucher" easily but also did not expect to be pretty much ignored. (I really thought this lot would have been gagging for it)
Thanks for the genuine replies, advice taken on board. (I need to drop a polite bit in just in case there is a chance of a shag)To the wide boys, just stay wide ok (but I still want to sulk)
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Maybe we are just quite good judges of a particular situation and yes the face has to fit and people have to conform on this site and any other site of this type or they simply get nowhere. (I think the penny is finally dropping that it just isnâ€™t that easy here to get a shag â€“ but fuck knows if I can work out what the right attitude to have is)
We are here to swing, not follow like sheep, slapping each others back with mutual praise. We're not into all the chatroom crap and the nice mealy mouth meetings, we're here to have sex with strangers - simple as that !! And contrary to what people may think, we have managed quite well (I just want a shag and thought you lot would be gagging â€“ god forbid I need to interact with anyone first)
Believe it or not we have met a few folks from here who don't post, don't go into chatrooms and don't bugger about, they just meet for sex and that's the end of it, but it seems all to much of a culture that a person or a couple is judged by how many times he or she sends a post or goes into a chat room - Crap !!!!!!!
Nice one m8 :rascal: (I really donâ€™t understand how the forums work â€“ the concept of talking is a strange one to me. I also do not understand why what I have said would be offensive to anyone.)

Please note we cannot guarantee the precise accuracy of translation, however the general meaning will be correct.

5 Nov 2006

Save it Pololady.....he doesn't appear to be in the database anymore! confused

5 Nov 2006

Yeah but it's quite good innit?
Oooh shit did I just slap PL on the back - Choon ducks!
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5 Nov 2006

I think you have to have the right attitude to be successful on here or anywhere else for that matter, a nice profile helps as does having the ability to write a nice detailed pm to prospective meets, having a webcam is another thing that may help so you can confirm who you are if need be, thatâ€™s the basics, to add to your chances you can attend a few socials or munches and linger with and get to know others within the lifestyle. I, and this is only my opinion remember, do believe that your post count on the forums or how often you frequent the chatrooms has absolutely nothing to do with having successful meetings on this site, thereâ€™s members on here whoâ€™ve probably never even posted in the forums that are successful, so Iâ€™m still curious to why post counts or length of membership are always at some stage brought in to these type of posts, so I ask, does a high forum post count or membership status make you a better prospective meet than anyone else confused

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5 Nov 2006

Quote by da69ve
Save it Pololady.....he doesn't appear to be in the database anymore!

Does that mean cause he didnt get laid in a week, he gave up?
Good job no one met him - 'oh sod it - you havent cum in 2 minutes of me trying - bollocks to you'
Oh dear!!!!

5 Nov 2006

Tough life being a single male on here - being part of the baying hordes, those of us who are gently average simply don't stand out perhaps.
Such is life though, I've dished out plenty of pms and emails etc, all polite and giving info about myself etc, never trying to be pushy or apply pressure - just trying to come across as genuine and normal bloke - and for the most part I'm roundly ignored with barely any replies. But I don't have a God given right to expect people to reply, everyone here has their own agenda, and why should there be any pressure from me to expect people to reply? I'm not arogant enough to think I'm some sort of adonis.
So I'll keep dishing out the 'hello' mails and I'll keep browsing the forum and rummaging around the chatroom. And if nothing ever comes of registering on here (and I suspect nothing will) then so be it. This isn't something you can force, and I'm happy enough pottering about with the rest of you, even though I'm in the background.
SIngle males eh? Whinging bunch of gits! lol

5 Nov 2006

Well if ya weren't so bloomin' far away... I would say 'Hello' to you smile

5 Nov 2006

Quote by Smokinjoe
Tough life being a single male on here - being part of the baying hordes, those of us who are gently average simply don't stand out perhaps.
Such is life though, I've dished out plenty of pms and emails etc, all polite and giving info about myself etc, never trying to be pushy or apply pressure - just trying to come across as genuine and normal bloke - and for the most part I'm roundly ignored with barely any replies. But I don't have a God given right to expect people to reply, everyone here has their own agenda, and why should there be any pressure from me to expect people to reply? I'm not arogant enough to think I'm some sort of adonis.
So I'll keep dishing out the 'hello' mails and I'll keep browsing the forum and rummaging around the chatroom. And if nothing ever comes of registering on here (and I suspect nothing will) then so be it. This isn't something you can force, and I'm happy enough pottering about with the rest of you, even though I'm in the background.
SIngle males eh? Whinging bunch of gits!

Don't just browse the forums - get involved. People get to know you - people get to like you - and then people want to meet you. Who knows what happens after that? It works.
Good luck to you.
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5 Nov 2006

Quote by Smokinjoe
But I don't have a God given right to expect people to reply, everyone here has their own agenda, and why should there be any pressure from me to expect people to reply? I'm not arogant enough to think I'm some sort of adonis.
l:

Oh give that man a cigar............................or a shag :giggle:
So well put Joe but not limited to single males. I've come across couples AND bi fems who think they're doing ME a favour by messaging me then get all arsey when I say no thanks. rolleyes

5 Nov 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
But I don't have a God given right to expect people to reply, everyone here has their own agenda, and why should there be any pressure from me to expect people to reply? I'm not arogant enough to think I'm some sort of adonis.
l:

Oh give that man a cigar............................or a shag :giggle:
So well put Joe but not limited to single males. I've come across couples AND bi fems who think they're doing ME a favour by messaging me then get all arsey when I say no thanks. rolleyes

you shouldn't be so fussy you mad welsh bint poke

5 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
But I don't have a God given right to expect people to reply, everyone here has their own agenda, and why should there be any pressure from me to expect people to reply? I'm not arogant enough to think I'm some sort of adonis.
l:

Oh give that man a cigar............................or a shag :giggle:
So well put Joe but not limited to single males. I've come across couples AND bi fems who think they're doing ME a favour by messaging me then get all arsey when I say no thanks. rolleyes

you shouldn't be so fussy you mad welsh bint poke

and when was the last time YOU were in my pm box eh? flipa

5 Nov 2006

He has trouble with PM's... because he puts people on his ignore list by mistake when he is perving at the photos on their profile.....
He did it to Bloke confused

5 Nov 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
and when was the last time YOU were in my pm box eh?

He's gone off dreaming again.... rolleyes

There again, I can talk.....or not as the case may or not be....:giggle:
Sits back down sing "Here I go again on my own....." rotflmao

5 Nov 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
and when was the last time YOU were in my pm box eh?

you can sod off, i've been having a break smackbottom

(flirting and grovelling to follow soon)

Quote by Polobird
He has trouble with PM's... because he puts people on his ignore list by mistake when he is perving at the photos on their profile.....
He did it to Bloke

and you can sod off with your cheeky fibs, i apologised for blocking you :flipa:
(i've never blocked bloke, his pics are nicer than yours)

Quote by Dollop
He's gone off dreaming again....

and you can sod off as well because, errrr, errrr, you like Deaf Leopard
(a good reason to sod off, ask anyone)

5 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
He's gone off dreaming again....

and you can sod off as well because, errrr, errrr, you like Deaf Leopard
(a good reason to sod off, ask anyone)
You're losing your powers Meaty....where's that unique brand of sparkling repartÃ© you used to have...... rolleyes

I know I have dodgy music taste...what's your excuse?
flipa

5 Nov 2006

Quote by Dlep

He's gone off dreaming again....

and you can sod off as well because, errrr, errrr, you like Deaf Leopard
(a good reason to sod off, ask anyone)
You're losing your powers Meaty....where's that unique brand of sparkling repartÃ© you used to have...... rolleyes

It's sunday, it's having a day off wink

5 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu

He's gone off dreaming again....

and you can sod off as well because, errrr, errrr, you like Deaf Leopard
(a good reason to sod off, ask anyone)
You're losing your powers Meaty....where's that unique brand of sparkling repartÃ© you used to have...... rolleyes

It's sunday, it's having a day off wink

It's had a year off already....about time it got off it's arse again.... lol

6 Nov 2006

Maybe cos your profile is no longer on the database rolleyes

6 Nov 2006

Quote by makaveli69
Maybe cos your profile is no longer on the database

keep up with the rest of us........his profile was removed after his whinge!

6 Nov 2006

its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

6 Nov 2006

Quote by easyease
its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

ffs.....let me change my profile.... goodness knows I, for one, don't want the men to feel hard done by and desperate.
rolleyes

:roll:

6 Nov 2006

Quote by easyease
its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

What a load of :censored:

6 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss
its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

What a load of :censored:
:thumbup:
Seconded

6 Nov 2006

Quote by easyease
its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

Well i like single men, aswell as other men and I dont think that anyone turns bi out of desperation.
Louise xx

6 Nov 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
its sad but true that single straight men arent really needed on this site, couples generally either want to play with other couples or bi females.
there are a lot of men using the photo ads section who are claiming to be straight
but are resorting to meeting bi guys through pure desperation.

What a load of :censored:
:thumbup:
Seconded
Thirded :thumbup:
Actually, its not :censored: its utter bollox rolleyes

6 Nov 2006

I just hope all the Bi guys are grateful that all the straight guys are coming there way due to the rejection from the masses! wink