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13 May 2004

Hi - I'm new to the site and new to this meeting-couples-on-the-internet-for-fun kind of thing. I have had some fun with couples in the past but never used the internet to arrange meetings before.
Just wanted to say hi to all the nice people out there and see if anyone can give me any advice as to the best way of going about things
oh and guess what - I'm yet another single bloke - sorry smile

13 May 2004

Hello TMH and welcome to SH!
The best advice is to get to know us all here by posting in the cafe - and we can get to know you. Whilst your first reason for registering may be to find sex with couples, it won't necessarily be your immediate reward - but fun, friendship, laughter and debate will be. Don't apologise for being a single bloke! Be fun, respectful and friendly and you'll receive the same, and hopefully what you're ultimately searching for.
Have fun in the forum!
Sappho xxx

13 May 2004

Hi TMH. Not sure I have any advice for you, but hope you hang around and have fun in the cafe anyway; it's great fun.

13 May 2004

Welcome my friend
I have no advice to give (see disclaimer)
Just enjoy its good fun in here lol

13 May 2004

Roger - followed the link to your ad - very funny in a I'm-laughing-with-you-not-at-you kind of way.
I was thinking of posting my own advert along the lines of "would like to meet woman into motorbikes - please send photo of motorbike" but after seeing your ad I realise I'd have to up my game to compete lol

13 May 2004

Welcome TMH wave

I cannot add anymore to what the lovely Sappho has said except, be prepared for addiction .

13 May 2004

Quote by tee_em_aitch
I was thinking of posting my own advert along the lines of "would like to meet woman into motorbikes - please send photo of motorbike" but after seeing your ad I realise I'd have to up my game to compete

LOL - glad you liked the ad. smile

I think you just need to be yourself in your ad - have a browse through the "men seeking women" ads and you'll quickly realise that if you can string two sentences together without mentioning your freaklishly large penis, you've got the drop on 95% of the competition already. :) Just be you, let people see you, and - with a little bit of luck - someone will like what they see.

13 May 2004

I have had some fun with couples in the past but never used the internet to arrange meetings before.

13 May 2004

Roger,
I'm wondering whether its worth putting up an ad at all - on the upside I would like to think that mine would stand out like a small tin of Shineola in an ocean of sh*te - but do people (couples particularly as that's my interest) actually bother to view and reply to them, choosing instead to simply pick and choose from the many responses they get

13 May 2004

Hello TMH

:wave: :wave:

13 May 2004

hello tee_em_aitch,
Welcome to the wonderful world of internet sex. I am also relatively new to this, though I have had a few sucessful meets, a very nice and very horny e-mail/photo exchange with a young married lady swapping horny stories and getting all worked up whilst in my lunch hour and some very interesting replies to ads that I have posted.
My only piece of advice is to take things slowly, watch out for the time wasters, be polite when answering an ad and don't get too peed off if you get turned down. Everybody has their own turn-on and I think by reading your intial hello, you are already prepared for that. Also when answering an ad try to be as honest as possible and put in as much as you can to describe yourself. You will see in most ads that people put "one line replies will be binned" and it true, when you get a reply like "I'll fuck you, e-mail me back" that doesn't really give you much of an idea of who the hell has replied to you. This site is a free one so that does mean there are the obvious idiots that access it just to wind people up. Ignore them and delete their replies without a second thought. In time you will come to know who the timewasters are. Oh one other thing, just because people enjoy swinging, is doesn't eman they have two heads or are complete sex maniacs that will drop their pants for anyone, they are all normal people that have a more relaxed attitude to sex, so treat everyone as you would treat your granny - i.e. be polite.
One other thing, the moderators of this site do give good advice, read it, digest it and hopefully you'll be lucky and enjoy.
Take care, and be good, if not be careful. lol

:lol:

13 May 2004

No danger of that Judy - I'm occasionally tempted to try on a few of the thongs that my ex left in my flat - but the thought of my ball bag bisected by a skimpy bit of cotton is just to disturbing and image to comprehend. I'll leave cross dressing to the experts lol