New member advice

21 Jun 2004

Hi all.
I would just like to find out, as I am new to the swing scene a fact before I start getting excited about the whole idea of intimate adult fun.
As I am a single young male living alone and not looking for a relationship, I was wondering if there is a place in the scene for someone like myself?
I know that the typical single male is only after one thing, however, I have heard too many times now elderly people saying that they wish they had more sex in there lifetimes. I do not want to grow old with the same regrets.
I am very content with my life and the independance I have achieved, however I do miss sex very much and the odd 1 night flings every 6 months just aren't enough.
So I ask, is there a place for an unattached, uncomplicated single male in the scene?
Any words of ecouragemant or advice would be warmly welcomed.
Dan.

22 Jun 2004

yes there is deffinitly a place for you dan my advice is chat to marcusso he will put you right regarding etiquette etc
love lemons xxx

22 Jun 2004

I'd advise you to read Roger's guide for single men, which has a lot of the answers you want, as well as the answers to things you haven't asked yet....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13919.html

22 Jun 2004

:welcome: Dan. There is a place for everyone on here.
Enjoy yourself and welcome to the forum/madhouseeeeeeeeee
Dave_Notts

22 Jun 2004

Hi Danny and welcome
sure is room but be warned its highly addictive rolleyes

22 Jun 2004

Thanks guys, your words are very reassuring, I think I may give it a try.
@Mister_Discreet - Thanks for that link, it was a very informative entertaining read, well done to Roger743 for such a well written guide.
Well I suppose an introduction is in order:-
My name is Dan, I am 33, and have just moved to Essex. I live alone, currently modernising a Bungalow I have just bought. I am a true Eastender who has just moved out to suburbia for the first time. Apparently I am a dead ringer for Phil Mitchell (so many have said) however with a much better temperament!
I look forward to making a new circle of friends, and maybe a circle of lovers!
Thanks to all for the warm welcome.
Dan.

22 Jun 2004

Phil Mitchell lookalike,how you fixed at fixing hubbies camshaft lol

22 Jun 2004

Nice to have you here Danny......just join in and have some fun with us.....

22 Jun 2004

@bireaders wife, well camshafts can be tricky, if it is bent then a gentle push in the right direction usually does the trick. If it is broken then you can buy something for that. Then again it could just do with a good ol greasing....lol
@dreamerHelen, east end girl huh. Sorry I moved out now....lol
Feeling welcome already.
Thanks to all.