New Member.. Hello, Looking for some advise !!!

12 Jun 2004

:giggle: HI EVERYONE, FIRST TIME ON THE SITE AND THINK THE FOURMS GREAT. HOPE YOU CAN HELP!
About 3 weeks ago I visited a swinging club in Sheffield.. My other half had been a few times before we got togetter and after chating in a round about way about what it was like, I proposed we went. I had a really good time but didn't really do anything with anyone else. My problem is that at the moment I would like to have a threesome with another girl and him but felt on the couples night that everyone came as a pair. I do know thats the point but still feel a little unsure. redface

this could just be because im new to the game and didn't feel that confidend talking to alot of people.

Also after talking to Jon I don't think I would like the singles night as in the main there are mostly men on these nights. Does anyone have any advise on how to deal with couples or where to go! x smile

PLEASE HELP, THIS IS SOMETHING THAT I WOULD LIKE TO GET IN TO BUT AM STILL A BIT SHY ABOUT TALKING TO PEOPLE IN THE CLUBS. THANKS X :confused2:

12 Jun 2004

Hi lolly, welcome to my 2nd home!!
I cant offer you advice about the clubs, but i would suggest putting an ad in the ads section. That way, you'll get replies from people similar to yourselves, and you may find it easier to get to know them. I would also say, stay on the forum here, its a great way to get to know people, and you make so many friends who can give you help and advice!!
Also, may i suggest you arrange a meet with a woman on your own?? That way you can be sure that you want to share your other half with no qualms as to whether you REALLY want to or not!!
What Daz and i like to do is...... meet up for a drink or meal first, without doing anything. that way you can decide if you get on as friends. if you do, then good luck!! If not, well at least youve tried, nothing ventured, nothing gained, lol!!
Hope this helps you!

12 Jun 2004

Quote by JudyTV
Hi lolly, welcome to my 2nd home!!
I What Daz and i like to do is...... meet up for a drink or meal first, without doing anything. that way you can decide if you get on as friends. if you do, then good luck!! If not, well at least youve tried, nothing ventured, nothing gained, lol!!
Hope this helps you!

Sounds like good solid avice to me Lou. Its a format I have found to work very well. Its also amazing how much you learn about someone over a meal and a bottle of wine. I usualy ask if I can choose the wine tho. Some men have such crap taste in wine i.e price. :P wink

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JudyTV
Lol, wine doesnt usually bother me as long as its alcoholic, lol!!!

12 Jun 2004

Maybe you could advertise for a local couple on here or the Sheffield Star/local freeads or Doncaster Free press who have meets sections? Maybe you will get lucky?

12 Jun 2004

Thanks alot. Its so nice to get advise off people that understand the seane. Daz thanks alot, as a new members and a new person to the swinging thing it so good to get some onest advice.
ta lol x

12 Jun 2004

lolly :welcome: I really don't think you'll have much trouble around here - if you stick around. good luck.