Hi lolly, welcome to my 2nd home!!
I cant offer you advice about the clubs, but i would suggest putting an ad in the ads section. That way, you'll get replies from people similar to yourselves, and you may find it easier to get to know them. I would also say, stay on the forum here, its a great way to get to know people, and you make so many friends who can give you help and advice!!
Also, may i suggest you arrange a meet with a woman on your own?? That way you can be sure that you want to share your other half with no qualms as to whether you REALLY want to or not!!
What Daz and i like to do is...... meet up for a drink or meal first, without doing anything. that way you can decide if you get on as friends. if you do, then good luck!! If not, well at least youve tried, nothing ventured, nothing gained, lol!!
Hope this helps you!
Maybe you could advertise for a local couple on here or the Sheffield Star/local freeads or Doncaster Free press who have meets sections? Maybe you will get lucky?
Thanks alot. Its so nice to get advise off people that understand the seane. Daz thanks alot, as a new members and a new person to the swinging thing it so good to get some onest advice.
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lolly :welcome: I really don't think you'll have much trouble around here - if you stick around. good luck.