Hi, I'm a new member would appreciate some advice on how best to get 'involved'.
1. Should I focus on my profile and hope I get the right response from the right people.
2. Should I go along to the club nights and hope it's my lucky night.
3. Do I respond to peoples adverts and hope I'm the 'chosen one'.
4. How do you become a successful male on the scene?
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Hi, I'm a new member would appreciate some advice on how best to get 'involved'.
1. Should I focus on my profile and hope I get the right response from the right people.
2. Should I go along to the club nights and hope it's my lucky night.
3. Do I respond to peoples adverts and hope I'm the 'chosen one'.
4. How do you become a successful male on the scene?
Once you get known either in chat or in the forums, you can get your name down on the list of a munch or a social. These are advertised in the lets meet up forum. Rules apply to the events, so read up !!!
That way you can meet loads of people socially and they will get to know you for who you are.
Ian
yep, have to agree with Ian, get yourself known in the chat rooms. have a laugh, and join in the chat in there, follow the room rules (such as no directing/no whispering) else the regs will chew you up and spit you out before you have even gotten started.
Look in the lest meet up sections for any socials/munches (strictly NON play do's) and get your face known amongst the members there.
Of course a witty, well thought out text on your profile, and some great photos (full body, naked, semi naked and clothed, not just the usual cock shots) As is a witty and well thought out ad, stating what your looking for, not just an "Im here, come and shag me now" sort of ad.
Always respond courteously to any ads, with a little about yourself etc, as a lot of couples/females get loads of PMs and use a severe weeding out process, deleting all the pms that consist of one liners, the winks, the males with crappy profiles or rubbishy cock shot photos, ones where the member shows a lack of manners, and so on.
If you can make yourself stand out as different from all the rest, for whatever reason, stand a good chance to getting through their selection process
Of course, going to clubs may get you a shag....greedy girl nights are a good start as they let extra single fellas in on those nights, so you might get lucky, and theres never any harm in a great deal of prayer is there :lol:
good luck with it all and BTW
and :welcome: to the forum!!
Look in the lest meet up sections for any socials/munches (strictly NON play do's) and get your face known amongst the members there.
Of course a witty, well thought out text on your profile, and some great photos (full body, naked, semi naked and clothed, not just the usual cock shots) As is a witty and well thought out ad, stating what your looking for, not just an "Im here, come and shag me now" sort of ad.
Always respond courteously to any ads, with a little about yourself etc, as a lot of couples/females get loads of PMs and use a severe weeding out process, deleting all the pms that consist of one liners, the winks, the males with crappy profiles or rubbishy cock shot photos, ones where the member shows a lack of manners, and so on.
If you can make yourself stand out as different from all the rest, for whatever reason, stand a good chance to getting through their selection process
Of course, going to clubs may get you a shag....greedy girl nights are a good start as they let extra single fellas in on those nights, so you might get lucky, and theres never any harm in a great deal of prayer is there :lol:
good luck with it all and BTW
and :welcome: to the forum!! 