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biggrin Hi,
me and my partner are new to swinging, actually we havn't done any yet!!
We are finding it hard to sort through the 'dross' we have had some replies to our advert, but too no availe, if it's us, please tell us, if we are doing something wronge, again do tell us,
we are not desperate, just confused
Mick and Al xx v rolleyes
hi mick and al, qelcome to swinging heaven.
i havent looked at your profile or ad yet so not sure what you are looking for,
have you tried a swinging club?
xxx fem xxx
Your advert looks fine to me :thumbup:
Just one thing though - calling people who aren't what you are looking for "dross" may not be helpful confused
Your ad and profile seem fine if a bit brief. You may want to be a bit more clear about what you mean by 'soft swop'. Often people take soft swing to mean no swap - just same room sex with own partner - and watching and things. So swapping may be a bit confusing.
I think patience is all that's needed. There's a helluva lot of ads on here these days. Sometimes an alternative is to come in here and get yerself known - go to some socials or munches and take it from there.
Good luck
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Sorry Cherrytree,
I wasn't implying that if we didn't meet expectations, they were 'dross'
Its the people that want 'photo's etc., and pretend that they are lagit., they should have their own page.
I know we may seem nieve to think that there arn't people who would do this, but we seem to have found them from the start and it makes us untrusting to everyone, including the genuine :cry:
Mick and Al x
Ah I see what you mean :thumbup:
firstly, welcome to the forum. Your ad looks ok, although I would not comment on anyones ad as there is no right/nor wrong way. We also may like different things. Just look round the forum & join in to get to know some of the loon in here.
good look & more importantly enjoy XX
wave Hello & welcome
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Hello wave and :welcome: to the site and forums...
Take your time - be prepared to put a bit of graft in and hopefully you'll get lots of fun out of the place.
Nola x
Hi :happy:
Nice to see you joining in the madness that is SH
Been here for a few years and met loads of lovely people
Jane n Dave xxx
wave hiya and welcome guys