Hello people. We r a couple from the northwest.. Hope u can view our pics from the link provided on our profile. We haven't done this before and r looking to get into the swinging scene. We've been holding back as discretion had been our utmost concern. But hey, we figured you only live once. Anyways.. We just need some advise so as not to get our fingers burnt... Thanks guys.. have a good sunday evening..
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Quote by angelblk69m
We've been holding back as discretion had been our utmost concern. But hey, we figured you only live once.
Hi guys and welcome.Discretion is a big thing for a lot of people on here, me included. I have not yet come across anyone who didn't respect others' right to discretion. You'll find that the majority, by a long way, will support and respect that. If you reply to an ad - state that discretion is important. If the person/s you reply to don't feel that they can honour that - then they are not the ones for you.
So - dip your toes in the water and be prepared for some great times ahead
I doubt you'll look back.
Rs :color:
Sex God
OI behave now. I don't pick up on every spelling mistake ya bugger. :cry:
Usually when it's either unintentionally made something funny or when its in a post full of lots of other mistakes to keep it company!
By the way, agree with the point about most being discreet.
BUT if someone puts in an ad that discretion is required, some people assume (rightly or wrongly) that they are cheating on their better half
Bev
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PS, I don't think that you need to be employed publicly or in any way at all, to be discreet.
Quote by duncanlondon
Most clubs particularly in London are full of 'media' types constantly looking for a 'story'.
I'm not sure where you get that information from at all. If most clubs are full of 'media' types then we must just be very lucky never to have come across any in the last 4 years of club-going. The real danger of being 'outed' is from putting a recognisable face picture on adverts or as an avatar. You never know who is looking at this site and just because they are here doesn't mean that they are discreet.
Quote by freckledbird
By the way, agree with the point about most being discreet.
BUT if someone puts in an ad that discretion is required, some people assume (rightly or wrongly) that they are cheating on their better half
Bev
xx
PS, I don't think that you need to be employed publicly or in any way at all, to be discreet.
Not necesarily Bev. I ask for the utmost discretion becuase this is MY business and my business alone. And I am not cheating. The couple I see regularly also stressed discretion and I respect their reasons for that. But I CAN see your reason for thinking that (did you notice that - I agreed AND disagreed with you - so now you can't disgaree with me
TM Venus) Sex God
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We also ask for discretion and we aren't cheats either hun, I agree with you there. I was just saying, that's what some people think.
Bev
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:lol: :lol: :lol: ( had to do that )We also ask for discretion and we aren't cheats either hun, I agree with you there. I was just saying, that's what some people think.
Bev
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Sex God
I can remember when I was a governor at my childrens' school and one of the other parent governors had got married. We had a night out shortly after and the main topic of conversation was the recently married one (who wasn't there at the time).
For her wedding night celebrations, she and new hubby had decided that they would pay a visit to La Chambre. She came into school on Monday morning announcing to all and sundry, where she'd been :shock: and the things she'd seen and done. :shock:
One of the other governors caught part of the conversation and asked which parent governor it was. The headteacher said "ooooo it's Bev & Chris, they do all that wife swapping stuff" (she didn't actually know that we were swingers). I went absolutely scarlet and didn't know where to put my face. It was actually one of the reasons we decided to NEVER visit LC, as I was also doing my teaching practice at the school then and it could have been very awkward if someone had seen us there
Bev
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For her wedding night celebrations, she and new hubby had decided that they would pay a visit to La Chambre. She came into school on Monday morning announcing to all and sundry, where she'd been :shock: and the things she'd seen and done. :shock:
One of the other governors caught part of the conversation and asked which parent governor it was. The headteacher said "ooooo it's Bev & Chris, they do all that wife swapping stuff" (she didn't actually know that we were swingers). I went absolutely scarlet and didn't know where to put my face. It was actually one of the reasons we decided to NEVER visit LC, as I was also doing my teaching practice at the school then and it could have been very awkward if someone had seen us there
Bev
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Sex God
Aaah - but you missed disgaree!!!
Told you I don't pick up on all of them
Bev
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Sex God
:roll: :roll: Sex God
You just grab every opportunity don't you, bloody hussy :twisted:
Bev
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Bev
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