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Hi I am new here never been involved before would like to meet new associates for adult fun and pleasure very adventurous and willing to please
Quote by marty_424
Hi I am new here never been involved before would like to meet new associates for adult fun and pleasure very adventurous and willing to please

hi marty, as a single staright male myself i'll try n help you. its hard to meet single females on here, if you're wanting to get into swinging then look for nice couples around your area, check the ads section regulary, write decent respectful replies and you might get picked from the bunch. If you've got a few females friends interested in this scene then take one to a club, see how you both feel about whats going on.
be lucky mate
Hiya Marty
:welcome: to the forum
Best advice I can give is join in on the forum and let everyone get to know you :thumbup:
Quote by exxxiled33
hi marty, as a single straight male myself i'll try n help you. its hard to meet single females on here . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Not necessarily.
When I was single here, I met and "met" more single girls on SH than I did couples/groups.
Time.
Patience.
Respect.
Honesty.
Relax and join in the forum and banter.
Above all - be yourself.
:thumbup:
And - Welcome to the asylum.
dambuster...you must have more patience than me!...i used to reply to some single fems ads on here but gave up and found that couples are a lot of fun anyway...nsa as well
Quote by exxxiled33
dambuster...you must have more patience than me!... . . .

Not neccesarliy.
I think it depends what you're looking for, and whether you're prepared to put in the time and effort that this place sometimes needs.
For me personally, there is no concious "effort" - or "work" involved - but I realise how lucky that makes me wink
Young bull/Old bull ?????
:thumbup:
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Hiya Marty
:welcome: to the forum
Best advice I can give is join in on the forum and let everyone get to know you :thumbup:

I have to say I agree as I was told this not so long ago and beleave me when I say it's good advice. smile So :welcome: to the forum and enjoy your stay biggrin
Marty
if you have a nice garden shed you may want to put this in your ad as I've noticed this seems to prove quite popular with some of the ladies lol
Check out the club/party thread at the top of the page if this is something you like. Post like hell on here so you get known. Have patience. Just beeen invited to my first social through here after posting for some three months, so, yes, it can happen.
Good luck!
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Marty
if you have a nice garden shed you may want to put this in your ad as I've noticed this seems to prove quite popular with some of the ladies lol

If I knew the secret of the shed i'd bottle it and sell it but trust me I don't get it myself it's just a shed for chuff's sake dunno
personally i think the munches are the best way for new people to get involved and get themselves a good name for being genuine
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hi marty, as a single straight male myself i'll try n help you. its hard to meet single females on here . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Not necessarily.
When I was single here, I met and "met" more single girls on SH than I did couples/groups.
Time.
Patience.
Respect.
Honesty.

Relax and join in the forum and banter.
Above all - be yourself.
:thumbup:
And - Welcome to the asylum.
Those two words there are the best advice.
Respect those who you wish to meet.
Be honest about you and what you want.
As for the rest of it - it is just personal preference. Some think the forum is the way to go, some think it is munches, some think it is photo ads, some think it is the chatroom and some pick 'n' mix.
Quote by PoloLady

hi marty, as a single straight male myself i'll try n help you. its hard to meet single females on here . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Not necessarily.
When I was single here, I met and "met" more single girls on SH than I did couples/groups.
Time.
Patience.
Respect.
Honesty.

Relax and join in the forum and banter.
Above all - be yourself.
:thumbup:
And - Welcome to the asylum.
Those two words there are the best advice.
Respect those who you wish to meet.
Be honest about you and what you want.
As for the rest of it - it is just personal preference. Some think the forum is the way to go, some think it is munches, some think it is photo ads, some think it is the chatroom and some pick 'n' mix.
I will agree with dammy....personally i think it is forum,muches and chatroom.
i dont get mutch luck with photo adds but then i dont put the time or effort in. However to be honest i love the social side as well as the sexual side so it just depends what you want.
Mike