Myself and my wife (almost) have decided that we would like to spice up the bedroom a litle with an additon.
She is turned on big time at the thought of another man servicing her, which im ok with, but she goes cold every time I tryand move onto the next level.
Has anyone any good advice, tips or expereince that may reduce her fears?
We are both happily married but we both (she more ) thinks that we may end up liking the other person too much.
wede be happy to hear from anyone who may be interested in halping us
thanks
J&J
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Greetings...BUT watch out for the rush...!
just pop on here some more, and join the crew. Dont make any rash decisions, read the photos guide and if in doubt ask some of the regulars...look to the most posters who can help. Most of us dont fit your needs, but we will help if we can. join in and take time to make friends first, and WELCOME....
Rocky
just pop on here some more, and join the crew. Dont make any rash decisions, read the photos guide and if in doubt ask some of the regulars...look to the most posters who can help. Most of us dont fit your needs, but we will help if we can. join in and take time to make friends first, and WELCOME....
Rocky
Well firstly, welcome to the Site.....!!
Secondly, Swinging is only good for those couples who are absolutely solid in their own relationship and are certain they can handle seeing their partner with another man/woman.....
So the main thing, like Rocky said, is to be comfortable with what you're doing and join in on the Boards....get to know us and find out that we're not all sex-starved, horny, perverts (well actually some of us are, but never mind
)......seriously though, join in and have some fun....maybe even come to a Munch and just take it gently and slowly until you're absolutely sure.....
Once you're sure, arrange a meet with someone that you BOTH feel comfortable with (preferably someone that you've corresponded with for a while by e-mail or phone).....and maybe even just meet for drinks/dinner the first time until you feel comfortable with the other person. And then maybe meet up with them for sex.....when you do that, make sure you all know the limits and remember one thing - You can ALWAYS say no if you're uncomfortable in any way....
I hope this helps, good luck and nice to have you with us.
Secondly, Swinging is only good for those couples who are absolutely solid in their own relationship and are certain they can handle seeing their partner with another man/woman.....
So the main thing, like Rocky said, is to be comfortable with what you're doing and join in on the Boards....get to know us and find out that we're not all sex-starved, horny, perverts (well actually some of us are, but never mind
)......seriously though, join in and have some fun....maybe even come to a Munch and just take it gently and slowly until you're absolutely sure.....Once you're sure, arrange a meet with someone that you BOTH feel comfortable with (preferably someone that you've corresponded with for a while by e-mail or phone).....and maybe even just meet for drinks/dinner the first time until you feel comfortable with the other person. And then maybe meet up with them for sex.....when you do that, make sure you all know the limits and remember one thing - You can ALWAYS say no if you're uncomfortable in any way....
I hope this helps, good luck and nice to have you with us.
Enjoy the whole journey, fantasising about it can be great fun, then only when, and if, you are both ready, take it up to the next level.
Sex God
Hi JaneandJohn 
Welcome to a very mad place. Lots of good advice has been given from everyone, enjoy the forum.
Welcome to a very mad place. Lots of good advice has been given from everyone, enjoy the forum.
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