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Quote by pete12345
i am a married 32 y/o professional bank manager looking for a bit of fun.i'm married but my wife seems to have gone off sex since our daughter was born. interested in comments, offers or advice. thanks
I presume you have asked her why she has gone off sex?
If you love her, either put up with having less sex in your marriage while you wine her and dine her till she feels more inclined to have sex
OR
Leave her :shock:
Whatever you do don't hurt her by going behind her back, sleeping with others and showing her little respect.
Quote by Dawn_Mids
i am a married 32 y/o professional bank manager looking for a bit of fun.i'm married but my wife seems to have gone off sex since our daughter was born. interested in comments, offers or advice. thanks
I presume you have asked her why she has gone off sex?
If you love her, either put up with having less sex in your marriage while you wine her and dine her till she feels more inclined to have sex
OR
Leave her :shock:
Whatever you do don't hurt her by going behind her back, sleeping with others and showing her little respect.
seconded.
Sex God
What Dawn said.
You need to be honest so talk to her and tell her what's in your mind.
Honesty will always be respected even if the other party disagrees with your view. You never know, you may reach an accommodation and your relationship will be the stronger for having been open with each other.
Hope this helps.
You need to be honest so talk to her and tell her what's in your mind.
Honesty will always be respected even if the other party disagrees with your view. You never know, you may reach an accommodation and your relationship will be the stronger for having been open with each other.
Hope this helps.
Quote by pete12345
i am a married 32 y/o professional bank manager looking for a bit of fun.i'm married but my wife seems to have gone off sex since our daughter was born. interested in comments, offers or advice. thanks
Can I have a bank loan please??
Sorry Geez, only joking. Women can go off sex for a while after giving birth, and I know it can go on forever. But you need to look at things like how long and why. If you are only 32 then it is possible that things can change given time. also if she hasnt long given birth then it is very natural that she might want to wait. Also, if she went through a difficult childbirth, then she might be worried about getting pregnant again
Disclaimer::
In no way am I trying to say I understand the fairer sex, I just try. It is a lifetimes work that has got me nowhere!
have a bit of sympathy for your poor wife
shes probally knackerd looking after the baby all day
if you want the sex to return .......
make sure she gets a break............ask the inlaws to do a bit of babysitting
take her out pamper her
make her feel sexy again
and be patient
how would you feel if you lost intrest in sex and she went off shagging
behind your back
.......
shes probally knackerd looking after the baby all day
if you want the sex to return .......
make sure she gets a break............ask the inlaws to do a bit of babysitting
take her out pamper her
make her feel sexy again
and be patient
how would you feel if you lost intrest in sex and she went off shagging
behind your back
.......
Quote by redstilletto
have a bit of sympathy for your poor wife
shes probally knackerd looking after the baby all day
if you want the sex to return .......
make sure she gets a break............ask the inlaws to do a bit of babysitting
take her out pamper her
make her feel sexy again
and be patient
how would you feel if you lost intrest in sex and she went off shagging
behind your back
.......
Absolutely !
:love: xx
Pete,
I have sooooo many comments to make on this, but I am going to ask you a couple of questions first if you don't mind :-
1. How would your wife feel if she stumbled upon the fact that you are here?
2. How would you feel if that stumbling resulted in the break up of your marriage.
3. Worse still - what happened if something really awful happened to you as a result of your being on here and your wife not only had to deal with that really awfull thing happening, but with the fact that you had also been cheating on her?
Please, please, please don't do this!!! Talk to her and work things out with her. Don't cheat. Please!
I have sooooo many comments to make on this, but I am going to ask you a couple of questions first if you don't mind :-
1. How would your wife feel if she stumbled upon the fact that you are here?
2. How would you feel if that stumbling resulted in the break up of your marriage.
3. Worse still - what happened if something really awful happened to you as a result of your being on here and your wife not only had to deal with that really awfull thing happening, but with the fact that you had also been cheating on her?
Please, please, please don't do this!!! Talk to her and work things out with her. Don't cheat. Please!
Sex God
Yet another married person who thought he would be bound to get his bit of secret "fun" here, imagining that as we're swingers here, we must be up for shagging anyone anywhere anytime. He must have got the message now. 
Mike.
Mike.
