Newbie

24 Nov 2006

HI,
I'm relativley new to the site (been a member for a month or two) and i havent had alot of luck so far, so i was wondering if anyone here could give me a few pointers on how to get myself started off and what to put on my profile that might stop me getting rejected all the time!

24 Nov 2006

:welcome: to the forums!
I'm sure somebody will help soon -- but in the mean time why not look at the posts at the top of the cafe forum (these are always at the top as they are 'sticky').

24 Nov 2006

hi Drewxcore,
welcome to the forums, a good place to start! join in as little or as much as you like and let people get to know you a little .... sometimes the best results in life come slowly with the best rewards! (we hope!) by joining in a little you may find your name is recognised so when you send mail you may not seem like 1 in 1000 but stand out a little ..... only a thought it may or may not help and it will take time hun
it looks like you have ticked every possible type of person you want to meet and every type of sex! do you want them all or have you just ticked everything coz you where not sure what to tick? think about what you truly want from this life style ...and work out a way to get it but always be honest and respectful although from reading your profile you try to be honest which is a good thing to be
i hope you find what you are looking for wink

already said but help from a site mob will be along soon smile

25 Nov 2006

:welcome:
I've looked at your profile and as profiles go, I think it's got most of the information I'd want to read about apart from I don't remember which area you are from... that might narrow things down a bit for some people looking.
I'd also say if you feel like putting an advert up it might help to direct the people you are looking for, to your profile. Another approach is to mail people that you are interested with a polite, "hi how are you?" and a bit about yourself type thing. Other approachs are to post in the forum, to post asking for a meet in the let's meet up sections or to go in the chatroom. Which ever suits you, your time and personality best I'd guess...
Take care and good luck.
kiss

Gem. x