Hi. Everyone
Newbie to site and to swinging scene. Need help so what is the best way to meet up with people, looking for couples or single females for NSA fun.
I am recently separated and there is no way back, so very rusty at this type of thing. So any advice and tips would be great.
Thanks in advance
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There have been countless threads, over the years, from people seeking advice on how to get the most out of this site, and it might be worth searching some of them. No doubt there will be plenty of advice offered, and I did see you were in a chatroom earlier, which is a good start. Use the chatrooms, observe the rules, and be polite and you'll soon get to know people. There's a fair bit of taunting and teasing goes on, but it's generally amongst people who have known each other for some time, so don't be fooled into thinking it's ok for anyone to chuck abuse around.
I'm not really a swinger myself, but I have met a number of members over the years, and some for sex too, although I tend to be much less pro active these days. Whenever I met anyone just for sex, it was the result of my being on cam in the chatroom, and I mean showing my face.
You should make an effort to get to a social, local to yourself, or to one of the bigger events which lots of members go to. Once people have met you they will take you more seriously.
Single guys can have a hard time, but that's because most are timewasters. They don't turn up for meets, and their profiles tend to be misleading. Also be aware that there are false profiles. Singles who aren't single, couples who aren't couples, and so on. People who spend a long time whispering to you are probably just some guy wanking over the chat exchanges.
I'm not really a swinger myself, but I have met a number of members over the years, and some for sex too, although I tend to be much less pro active these days. Whenever I met anyone just for sex, it was the result of my being on cam in the chatroom, and I mean showing my face.
You should make an effort to get to a social, local to yourself, or to one of the bigger events which lots of members go to. Once people have met you they will take you more seriously.
Single guys can have a hard time, but that's because most are timewasters. They don't turn up for meets, and their profiles tend to be misleading. Also be aware that there are false profiles. Singles who aren't single, couples who aren't couples, and so on. People who spend a long time whispering to you are probably just some guy wanking over the chat exchanges.
