We (my wife and I) are just thinking about getting into the scene but we are very nervous and know none of the terminology (looking on the ads helped a little) .
Is there a guide to the terms and acronyms used in the scene? initially we would be interested in watching another couple and possibly joining in but not swapping partners to the extent of having no physical contact with the other couple, what would this be called (i just know someone is going to say boring
). we want to take this very slowly to start off with and dont want to spoil it with a bad experiance.Darkmage
it would be nice to get this straight so we dont go answering ads or even putting one up and getting or giving the wrong ideas from the start, may i suggest a FAQ and terminology section as a sticky, it might help those who are nervous about even replying to an add in case we do something embarresing, for instance i cant see why so many people stipulate no w/s, i personally like "wearing stilletoes"!!!