Newbies question

Hi everybody, I am sure this has been asked numerous times but we are brand new to this and although we find it exciting we are very nervous.... we are not fully fledged swingers and not sure that we will ever be but we are open minded and looking for similar newbies with similar experience. How would be the best way to interact with couples similar to us...

Thank you in advance

V&C x

Hi 

I am also new to swinging and unsure where to start. 

Peterx

Your best bet would be to go into the chat rooms. The Pool is the busiest. It can seem a little intimidating at first, but stick with it. They're a good bunch. Just introduce yourself and join in with the chat. We can talk about everything from music, food, cars, films, tv shows, all sorts. There are some very strong personalities in there that can seem to dominate the conversation, but stick with it. 

Does anyone have any advice on how to bring up the topic of an extra person in the bedroom, when in a committed relationship?

Hi guys nerves and excitement can be a horny feeling ....best way forward is to meet socially ask loads of questions and see how you both feel afterwards ....if your openminded and wanna take little steps you can have your own fun .....in any way that suits you....your rules your boundaries ...maybe massage could be a nice intro.....have a peep on our stories ....xx

You are right Ben and Sue. It is about what you are comfortable with as a couple 

Fancy a chat with me and my hubby 

hi ya ,,,,,,,

The main thing to do is take things at your own pace ..always chat about what you would both like from swinging..its a great life style once you get into it..but its not a competition on who can meet the most people or have the most sex..just take things at your own pace and only do what you are both happy with..