about time thanks minx,this tension need to be diffused
i would like to take part on this reconciliation olive branch party but have got a bad feeling someone has already clinch a fist at me.
but pm'ing someone if things get out of hand is a good idea but how will the rest of the forumist know the two parties have resolved their differences,well as Mars just said we are all adults we need to talk this off
peanut peace brother!
Thanks for liking the thread I thought a good idea for people to express themselves without fear of attack.
I find most people here are very nice people once you understand them a little, we don’t always have to agree but I feel in the normal world if met would get on and just beg to differ.
777 I hope it doesnt get hijacked it would be a shame!
BBW This is a place you are right that people do listen and a good place to rant, you can say how you feel and really I don’t think on the whole people hold grudges
Jaymar
I am like you I hide behind nobody, I speak from my heart too like a few others here we just all have different ways of expressing ourselves in what we write.
We might on occasions annoy someone with our own opinions but we have a right to stick to what we believe in, that is our choice.
I was very angry a while back with a poster that I thought was going out of their way to anger people but I sent a pm and we sorted it out there, I now feel we have mutual respect.
Don’t let the forums bore you, we need posters like yourself to stay and stick up for what we believe in, we can all learn from each other.
In the beginning I think people are always careful about new posters but over time they seem to be just accepted.
Phuckers If you feel you have upset someone and it wasn’t intended pm them it takes a strong person to say sorry, I am sure they would accept your apology. If they don’t then at least you tried. You will at least feel better about yourself after.
I have been told by someone from sh that I am a big softie for writing this thread.
Well that’s me but upset me I am as strong as an ox.
So where are all the rest of the nice people?
There are not many posted on this thread
We are new to this site and do like to browse the forum and we do reply to posts if we are interested in the subject or have an opinion on the subject.
But also there are times when we have indeed not replied to posts as they have strayed totally off the subject and turned into personal slanging matches.
Part of the reason we are on the site is chatting to likeminded people and luckily we have found some of these already.
Really like the thread and hope to chat to other likeminded "nice" members in the future.
Sara
I'm new to this but have been browsing and to be honest have been amazed at some of the comments on here.
Now reading that 'I speak the truth' or 'it's from the heart' and similar as excuses for outright rudeness is bordering on shameful. It's just plain ignorance in some cases. There should be no excuse for not engaging brain before speaking (or typing in this instance) and while some people clearly have differing viewpoints it's those differences that make us individuals.
Now I suppose I will be pilloried for 'speaking the truth' (no, it's not the truth it's an opinion).
Love the thread though, it's a nice idea. Hope the guilty parties have read it and digested the contents. Somehow though I guess that they won't realise who they are.
aww welcome to the archive foraging club minx....its good to see what you posted on ages ago, always raises a smile.....now you see why Nola and I love it so much
now.....go dust the cobwebs out of your hair!
... I feel discriminated against.
lp
:x :x :x
:D :D
. Debates are great when it's a proper debate, a boxing arena thread isn't a debateable thread. 
and have fun!
