No David Bailey Then ??

4 Jan 2006

Sooo many profiles so few pictures ?
Is it a good thing or bad to have piccy's on the profile - does it mean you get less of a response if they know what you look like already.... LOL Its more abount the person on the inside you know !
Whats the general opinion on this ?
PS this is a great site I have done no work at all this afternoon, never really used it much before rolleyes

but hey what a site...

4 Jan 2006

Pics on profiles are a new feature of the site, and the forum crowd seem to view them with some suspicion, possibly because we tend to arrange meets through Munches and socials rather than adverts.
Before the changes made in December, photos were mostly limited to 3 in an advert, and a good rule of thumb was 'no cock shots unless asked for', especially when advertising for women or couples... but you are in an unusual position of being a) bi and b) rather photogenic wink

- so I think your profile is about right. You might consider a fully-clothed shot or two showing your face, if you feel safe about doing that.

4 Jan 2006

Thanks for the info I will try some with me kit on then !!
Do you know of any Munches in the Wolverhampton area for newbies ?

4 Jan 2006

it depends entirely on the individual
i personally choose not to post a pic to ensure my when meeting anyone i also never request a pic as the not knowing adds a certain risque fun element.
however most adds insist on you sending a pic which is their right
all it means is those that prefer anonimity get less responses. anyone can post a pic that isnt them, but why lie,you wont get any further and risk being 'outed' on the site
some do...some dont...so what

4 Jan 2006

Quote by Up4funru2
Thanks for the info I will try some with me kit on then !!
Do you know of any Munches in the Wolverhampton area for newbies ?

so i take it you have read this.... smile

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/munch.html

4 Jan 2006

We have some pics on ours rolleyes

Hasn't made any difference to the lack of responses though lol

4 Jan 2006

Cheers Steph !! I am Tryin 69position

Fabio - Yes mate I did read it and a number of your other post, must say you do give sound advice, but my comments were due to the West Mids Munch Post that stated you had to be a regular on the scene etc.. just trying to make a splash in a very very big pond !
Take your point on the pics bein fake, the last person that PM'd me sent two diff face pics !?!

4 Jan 2006

its always the ones without a photo in their profile that ask for a cock pic. i even had one who had no picture up tell me im too fat. theres some real fucking pleb s in the photo ads section for sure.

4 Jan 2006

Quote by Up4funru2
Cheers Steph !! I am Tryin
Fabio - Yes mate I did read it and a number of your other post, must say you do give sound advice, but my comments were due to the West Mids Munch Post that stated you had to be a regular on the scene etc.. just trying to make a splash in a very very big pond !
Take your point on the pics bein fake, the last person that PM'd me sent two diff face pics !?!

that is fine mate... i understand that new people to the site want to get invloved in all aspects of the site, but this is one of the occasions i would say slow down, half the reason that people say "regualrs at munches is because at that stage you have a better understanding of the site, and i am sure you will have made lots of friends by then"
once things have settled now from all the upheaval i think people may look at doing mini socials and possibly munches again........

4 Jan 2006

Quote by gentlemanfor2
hi all
well i am going to open another can of worms here.
I should suggest a good 60% of photos are fake ,surely a face to face chat in a non commital meeting is far better so whats the use of posting them.
This way you get to know the person/ s far better and see if there is the excitement/desire to proceed to the more sensaul matters,
jay

Now how did you come up with that figure..... i mean why 60%, why not 70 or 80% in others words you don't really know!

4 Jan 2006

Quote by Up4funru2
.. just trying to make a splash in a very very big pond !

Never mind - your time at munches will come... but in the meantime I have a gangbang and a bi party you may well just fit in at :twisted:

4 Jan 2006

i think a decent social conversation face to face prior to any interactionis best... most of my adventures happen after meeting socially either at a party or a club .. thank goodness that looks do'nt always come into it.. i would be the worlds oldest virgin,,, hope stephs post of possibility of more local munches come to fruition happy new year all cheers mike

4 Jan 2006

oooooooh would i fit in to lol

4 Jan 2006

bugger.... I just checked and he's gone - darn it.

4 Jan 2006

Quote by gentlemanfor2
hi all
well i am going to open another can of worms here.
I should suggest a good 60% of photos are fake ,surely a face to face chat in a non commital meeting is far better so whats the use of posting them.
This way you get to know the person/ s far better and see if there is the excitement/desire to proceed to the more sensaul matters,
jay

Well, my pics certainly aren't fake, as a couple of guys on here could attest.
As for a face to face meet before even having an idea of what the other person looks like............nope, wouldn't ever do that again. The guy was totally opposite to what I was looking for, a total waste of my time and his. Pics can at least prevent you travelling a long way for nothing.

4 Jan 2006

Quote by Lissa
hi all
well i am going to open another can of worms here.
I should suggest a good 60% of photos are fake ,surely a face to face chat in a non commital meeting is far better so whats the use of posting them.
This way you get to know the person/ s far better and see if there is the excitement/desire to proceed to the more sensaul matters,
jay

Well, my pics certainly aren't fake, as a couple of guys on here could attest.
As for a face to face meet before even having an idea of what the other person looks like............nope, wouldn't ever do that again. The guy was totally opposite to what I was looking for, a total waste of my time and his. Pics can at least prevent you travelling a long way for nothing.
Exactly.....wouldn't want them coming on here afterwards complaining that you were timewasters for meeting up with them and not wanting to play because you never got to see a photo first.

4 Jan 2006

Well we for one think that it is important to have profile pics.
Whenever we get a contact, we check their profile and pics. If we are happy with that, we then establish that the couple are genuine via webcam chat.
We don't chat on cam unless we are both there and we expect the same of couples that we chat to. It is our simple way of ensuring that the other cpl is genuine.
Anybody can post fake profile pics, but they cannot chat on webcam as a couple without being genuine!
Just thought I'd add my tuppenyworth

9 Jan 2006

Thanks for all the info guys... I now have a number of pictures on my profile now so hopfully it will help !!
:twisted:

9 Jan 2006

Anyway Polo - You got you man in the end wink

9 Jan 2006

ok im going to admit it ive read none of this thread but i just came in to say
:twisted: bloody hell you are beautifull
xx lou xxx

9 Jan 2006

Thanks 4 that !! redface

Gone all shy now .. he he he :twisted:

10 Jan 2006

Quote by fem_4_taboo
ok im going to admit it ive read none of this thread but i just came in to say
:twisted: bloody hell you are beautifull
xx lou xxx

I'll second that ... wow ... and what a bum ... I think it needs to be in the "mens bums" thread
Mrs Squirtee
xxx

10 Jan 2006

Great the 2 ladies that think I have a good bum live miles away ... d'oh :moon:

10 Jan 2006

Well here's a 3rd that likes your bum (and everything else) :inlove: but also not in the neighbourhood :cry:

10 Jan 2006

Quote by Up4funru2
Anyway Polo - You got you man in the end

10 Jan 2006

Steph - Sorry me darlin !! (in trouble all ready - d'oh) I was just feeling around on my first day !! LOL
Thank you all for your very kind comments, and feel free to request my presence at any event, inorder that you may have a squeeze in person ! :twisted:
he he he - i am feeling very naughty this afternoon wink

10 Jan 2006

after careful advice from people in here decided to put both a face and cock pic on my profile (was rather cock heavy before)...was bit worried about anonymity but at least this way - what u see is what u get
altho any women out there who want to help me take some good body pics....give me 6 mths in the gym and give me a shout he he he

13 Jan 2006

steph Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:33 pm Post subject:
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Oi I said you were gorgeous on your first day and errrrmmmmmmmmmm why you never been in Chams when I am
HIya from the East Mids (again)
Steph

I may well be cumming to a club near you soon !! LOL with a little help from a friend wink

:wink:

13 Jan 2006

Quote by Up4funru2
steph Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:33 pm Post subject:
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Oi I said you were gorgeous on your first day and errrrmmmmmmmmmm why you never been in Chams when I am
HIya from the East Mids (again)
Steph

I may well be cumming to a club near you soon !! LOL with a little help from a friend wink

:wink:
:wink: :twisted:

13 Jan 2006

At the moment I think the guys are producing the most unselfconscious body and face shots in the avatars, ads and profiles.
A lot also depends on quality of technology being used and the ability to create an artistic or stylish setting. I think everyone appreciates something that displays real effort and skill.
There is just so much hastily produced fuzzy images. Or is that that swinging leads to Alzheimers!