Hi
I've been on the site for months and months and no genuine meets as yet. Wondering where I'm going wrong. Finding it near impossible to break into the scene. I'm house-sitting for 2 weeks in Kent and would love some company. I'm mid-late 20s, fit, g/l, laid back guy.....any tips anyone? Have my name down for the next regional munch but thats not for months.
Any guidance would be much appreciated.
Thanks
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Your main problem is that you're a single guy. Us single guys vastly outnumber everyone else on this site, which means everyone's single-guy needs were being met long before you or I came along.
Best advice I can give is that you try to post in the forum and get yourself known, read the tips in the Advice section of the site, and be prepared for disappointment.
Best advice I can give is that you try to post in the forum and get yourself known, read the tips in the Advice section of the site, and be prepared for disappointment.
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Your main problem is that you're a single guy. Us single guys vastly outnumber everyone else on this site, which means everyone's single-guy needs were being met long before you or I came along.
Best advice I can give is that you try to post in the forum and get yourself known, read the tips in the Advice section of the site, and be prepared for disappointment.
Goddamn it! I was trying to be subtle... but eh - why bother!? Single men? Gotta love em. Would be a void in my life without them. Yes, in my life.
Warming the Bed
Suddenly all I can think of is Vix and her void! I'm now going to be useless and distracted for the rest of the evening.....must get out more I think 
Oh and deuce, don't give up and don't get disappointed. All you need is a little luck and it will probably happen when you don't expect it to. I know that doesn't really fall into the helpful catagory of advice, but there ya go :)
Oh and deuce, don't give up and don't get disappointed. All you need is a little luck and it will probably happen when you don't expect it to. I know that doesn't really fall into the helpful catagory of advice, but there ya go :)
Deuce
An honest and thoughtful ad will be read. I cant give any itps on style, there are many threads on here that do. I have had some positive feedback from mine, but it shouldnt be an exercise in crafting something, It should be an honest expression of you as a person. The important thing to remember with the ads is that 100s of other men post each day, so you need to regularly update it. I would also suggest you reread it from time to time to assess if you still feel it represents you, amazing how many times you will want to make subtle changes.
I have very rarely had any response when responding to someone elses ad. Even though I only respond to those where I fit all their requirements. But others may have differet experiences.
I dont really PM so dont know about that. (Only one lady, with whom I share a boat!)
Dont really use the Chat room very much, but from limited experience I have been in contact with one lady through MSN
The forum is great if you have (lots of) time, but beware it is addictive. As for a mechanism to arrange meets, thats not really its purpose, but if it happens,it happens. It is probably little different to going regularly to a pub. Meeting people, having a laugh, but the main purpose is not to get offff with someone.
I was going to say "good luck", but then that sounds rather crass, more appropriate is that I hope you find what you are seeking.
An honest and thoughtful ad will be read. I cant give any itps on style, there are many threads on here that do. I have had some positive feedback from mine, but it shouldnt be an exercise in crafting something, It should be an honest expression of you as a person. The important thing to remember with the ads is that 100s of other men post each day, so you need to regularly update it. I would also suggest you reread it from time to time to assess if you still feel it represents you, amazing how many times you will want to make subtle changes.
I have very rarely had any response when responding to someone elses ad. Even though I only respond to those where I fit all their requirements. But others may have differet experiences.
I dont really PM so dont know about that. (Only one lady, with whom I share a boat!)
Dont really use the Chat room very much, but from limited experience I have been in contact with one lady through MSN
The forum is great if you have (lots of) time, but beware it is addictive. As for a mechanism to arrange meets, thats not really its purpose, but if it happens,it happens. It is probably little different to going regularly to a pub. Meeting people, having a laugh, but the main purpose is not to get offff with someone.
I was going to say "good luck", but then that sounds rather crass, more appropriate is that I hope you find what you are seeking.
If you have been on the site for months and months perhaps you should have joined properly back its all about posting here in the cafe getting to know people slowly just remember its not a race to get your leg along to the munches as well that's a good way to put faces to the friendly is very important as well.
Regards D and M
Regards D and M
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And there'd be a void in our lives without you too, Vix.
Awww... bless ya. You on your way?
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And there'd be a void in our lives without you too, Vix. :kiss:
And it'd be a loot quieter
But my vociferousness is usually meticulously punctuated and my vocabulary is invariably grammatically correct. I own a thesaurus and a dictionary and am not afraid to use them.
loot
Valuables pillaged in time of war; spoils.
Stolen goods.
Informal. Goods illicitly obtained, as by bribery.
Informal. Things of value, such as gifts, received on one occasion.
Slang. Money.
I love you, Clare. It's always good to have a coadjutant to feed me material. :inlove:
Sex God
If its any help......... (I posted this some time back... and have edited it for here)
I do not have an advert, my intention was not the “get a quick shag†more of a “make some friends and see what happens†approach.
However, I have had a fair few offers in the short time I have been here…. and am in the process of building on the early stages of what could turn into good friendships. I have also taken a few offers up and met and had a brilliant time...........
This has been said time and time again…… put in the leg work and you will get the results.
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort youput in!
I do not have an advert, my intention was not the “get a quick shag†more of a “make some friends and see what happens†approach.
However, I have had a fair few offers in the short time I have been here…. and am in the process of building on the early stages of what could turn into good friendships. I have also taken a few offers up and met and had a brilliant time...........
This has been said time and time again…… put in the leg work and you will get the results.
This site is the sum of what you contribute, the results that you get from it will be commensurate to the effort youput in!
deuce,
I have been here a short time and I am getting to know people on here. This will only happen over time, it is not an overnight thing. I have no expectations, other than to chat to people and hopefully make some friends along the way. Anything else that may happen will be a bonus for me.
I have been here a short time and I am getting to know people on here. This will only happen over time, it is not an overnight thing. I have no expectations, other than to chat to people and hopefully make some friends along the way. Anything else that may happen will be a bonus for me.
