hi
check these links out that offer some good advise
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13919.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/single-men.html
Take the advise given in them links and then remember..
there are 100's of single guys to each couple or single female on here so make yourself stand out and JOIN IN
shaz x