Not a good day......it gets worse!

19 Oct 2004

Well, it wasnt a particularly good day yesterday, and it seems to have carried on into today. My best m8's got a seriously ill family member, been up most of the night cos ive got a cough/cold and also my son is poorly with a cough/cold and now mouth ulcers (hes only 3), got a text last night from a friend to say that she cant babysit for me on 30th Oct as shes made other arrangements (despite me asking her if she could back in August) confused

So even us going to Torture Garden for halloween hangs in the balance now, despite hubby and I spending a small fortune (to us anyway) on our outfits. And to top it off, hubbys bike wouldnt start this morning, so thats something else to sort out confused

Anyway, enough moaning, cos last night i read an uplifting message from my friend despite having his relative in hospital, he still had time to do that for me :inlove: , and also thinking about Calistas step daughter kiss

Oh well, chin up, looking forward to seeing someone next weekend, all being well, and getting a hug passionkiss

19 Oct 2004

:therethere: I know what its like being poorly and looking after a little one who feels the same...... bit shit really.
sad

Hope everything gets a bit better for you. xx

19 Oct 2004

(((HUGS)))
Hate days like that and just think tomorrow is a day that brings new opportunities kiss

I can't offer any real words of comfort but I'm thinking of you smile

My step daughter is doing really well smile

and has started to go to the hospital school as she is feeling so well smile

(((Hugs)))
Calista xxx

19 Oct 2004

Awe babe life has always got a way of kicking you when you are down.
Hope this does not last to long, everyone is getting ill at the moment.
We will try and cheer you up on here.
Hugs to you.

19 Oct 2004

And a big {{{HUG}}} from me too
and piccies on their way............
Alex x x

19 Oct 2004

awwww (((((genherts))))) :therethere:
bit rubbish that little lot eh? hope you're both better soon and get your sitter sorted out.
and calista, great news on caz! biggrin

n x x x

19 Oct 2004

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19 Oct 2004

Hunny...chin up....hugs for u smile

.... hope things get better....

19 Oct 2004

Does seem sometimes it's just one thing after another doesn't it?
Hang in there hun.
Hope you day gets better. :therethere:

19 Oct 2004

Well thanks so much for your support everyone, but DundeeCpl, you were right, life is shite right now, Hubby came home from work today early, hes been sacked for apparently gross misconduct!!
Hes been there nearly 4 years and the boss has always been a complete a-hole, and has been looking for a way to get rid of hubby for a while now, he doesnt like his hard working attitude and they have clashed over a number of things. His boss is a psycho to be honest with you, on anti depressants but doesnt take medication properly.
Ho hum...... :cry:

19 Oct 2004

Fuck I whish I had'nt said, about life kicking you when you are down.
You seem to have got the big boot.
Sorry to both of you I feel shitty now.
Hope hubby can get a new job soon.

19 Oct 2004

Mrs Gen!! :therethere: I really hope things sort themselves out for you - meeting you on Saturday was great, you're such a bubbly person! I'm sure you're feeling very flat at the moment, here's hoping you get an injection of fizz very soon kiss

19 Oct 2004

Quote by GenHertsCpl
Well thanks so much for your support everyone, but DundeeCpl, you were right, life is shite right now, Hubby came home from work today early, hes been sacked for apparently gross misconduct!!
Hes been there nearly 4 years and the boss has always been a complete a-hole, and has been looking for a way to get rid of hubby for a while now, he doesnt like his hard working attitude and they have clashed over a number of things. His boss is a psycho to be honest with you, on anti depressants but doesnt take medication properly.
Ho hum...... :cry:

WTF.... gesome people are just completely unbelievable. Does the guy own the buisness?
Is there someone higher he can appeal to? If not the next stop would be CAB about constructive dissmissle. mad

IIRC Vix is a unioun rep and may be able to shed a bit more light on where you stand legally.
Good luck guys. I'm keeping everything crossed that things get better for you soon. kiss

19 Oct 2004

Quote by GenHertsCpl
Well thanks so much for your support everyone, but DundeeCpl, you were right, life is shite right now, Hubby came home from work today early, hes been sacked for apparently gross misconduct!!
Hes been there nearly 4 years and the boss has always been a complete a-hole, and has been looking for a way to get rid of hubby for a while now, he doesnt like his hard working attitude and they have clashed over a number of things. His boss is a psycho to be honest with you, on anti depressants but doesnt take medication properly.
Ho hum...... :cry:

That's horrible GenHertsCpl.....really feel for you. :cry:
Hope the situation improves. Sounds like you have a lot of good friends on here to pick you up. Take care of yourselves
Mr KL

19 Oct 2004

bloody 'ell genherts!
as if you all needed the day to get any worse! had the run in with "management" ((( yeah right! ))) not so long back, and i know just how bloody frustrating it must have been for mr genherts putting up with it, and even worse today for the lot of you.
hope things pick up soon. my best to you.
neil x x x ;)

19 Oct 2004

babe seems u have loads of ppl giving u lov in here
both hairy shoulders available for u :therethere: :rose:

19 Oct 2004

Quote by Re-Lapse
Fuck I whish I had'nt said, about life kicking you when you are down.
You seem to have got the big boot.
Sorry to both of you I feel shitty now.
Hope hubby can get a new job soon.

Dont feel bad Re-lapse , just being on here telling someone made me feel better, and everyones responses make us feel less isolated, esp when ppl point out things or offer advice.
Your HUGE hug earlier was lovely, and i keep looking at it, cos it makes me laugh!
Thanks again for all the words of encouragement in here and in pms or phone! :rose:

19 Oct 2004

No words of wisdom or great advice - just lots of big hugs :therethere: :therethere: :therethere:
Everything happens for reason tho hun. Probably a much better job around the corner ?
(dunno -but that's how I cope with shit)

19 Oct 2004

You need some of this>>>
and this>>
Testing my new smileys.
did they work?

19 Oct 2004

Quote by Re-Lapse

Testing my new smileys.
did they work?

Re-lapse - do you own an anorak? Just wondering? confused

:twisted: :twisted:

19 Oct 2004

Yes they did lol
Thanks for the flower hun! smile