Get him back down the club!
From a bloke's point of view, you can't be too careful about a subject like this. After all, you girls don't like it when we make less than flattering comments about your waistlines... nuff said.
On the other hand, don't go do far round the block to avoid offence, that he hasn't a clue what you're really talking about.
So don't bother with a big meal beforehand then say, 'we've got to talk', otherwise he'll think you're dumping him.
Just sit him down, no distractions, and say you're not happy, why you're not happy, and why you think the root reason is. Then tell him you love him, and want to stay with him. This is important to make him emotionally secure.
One last thing. If he hints the problem might be yours, don't hit the roof and assume he's trying to start a fight. he may even have a point, so keep an open mind.
Good luck!
No offence ! but maybe we are being a bit hard on the poor chap ! I don't know about you lot but sex a few times a week as decribed seems normal enough ! There are other things in life like work, bills to pay etc etc ! Its not as if you have no physical relationship at all now is it !
Thanks for the comments about my tits Husky... they're NOT droopy, thank you!
Mission accomplished anyway... it was Mr Possum's birthday this week, so I turned up at his front door wearing basque and sussies under a long black coat with high heels. Proceeded to get a fantastic rogering and took some excellent photos...then made him my speciality lasagne followed by creme brulee with a candle.
The look of complete contentment on his face at the end of the evening said it all - and we went to Chams last night. He's back - and he says that he isn't even slightly going off me... infact he loves me more than ever. So, hurrah! Thanks for all your support xx
Creme brulee with a candle in the top - in the style of a birthday cake!! :laughabove:
