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After only being on this site a short time I must admit I find it terribly exciting. However I do feel sorry for many people who post and then find themselves ridiculed by other members. The site promotes many attributes, one of those being their dedication to newbies. Not everyone knows exactly how to act and they SHOULD check, however seeing some of the responses posted to some 'uneducated' people I feel they should be privatley told insted of publicly embarrased. It would put me off posting in the future so some potential great people could be inhibited.
Im sure that some people will post clever remarks to this post but I feel it just solidifys my point... biggrin
Everyone on here is a potential friend so dont just scare them off.
adi
Really this is a very friendly site and to come on and post a negative post .
Probelry not the best move .
And iv never noticed a clique at all .
People sometimes set themselfs up for ridicule .
By posting silly and stupid remarks and then people just give there points of veiw .
When you get to know us properly most are not posting to be horrible just daft humor Sometimes sarky like .
Take it all in your stride and read inbetween the lines im sure you will understand we are only having a laugh .
But 1 coment of yours does affend and will others as well .the 'uneducated bit :shock: .
Ok pick holes in my spelling i dont care its been done before and i just laugh .
But if being ededucated makes you a better person god help you confused .
I teach but not english .
And for some here english might be there secand language who knows i dont normaly post Long speeches maybe one liner but thats me .
Im genuine have fun and above all never judge :shock:.
Right speach over lets have some fun what newbie can we take the piss out off today .
oh did i just type that out loud hehe .
nar im only avin a laffffff
:giggle: Personally, I only come on this site for the ridicule. I find its a far better class of piss taking than I recieve at work..........
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:giggle: Personally, I only come on this site for the ridicule. I find its a far better class of piss taking than I recieve at work..........

You are? lol
I think that picture in the sign post thread says it all!!!!!!!!!!!! :P :P :lol:
Quote by funkyhull
After only being on this site a short time I must admit I find it terribly exciting. However I do feel sorry for many people who post and then find themselves ridiculed by other members. The site promotes many attributes, one of those being their dedication to newbies. Not everyone knows exactly how to act and they SHOULD check, however seeing some of the responses posted to some 'uneducated' people I feel they should be privatley told insted of publicly embarrased. It would put me off posting in the future so some potential great people could be inhibited.
Im sure that some people will post clever remarks to this post but I feel it just solidifys my point... biggrin
Everyone on here is a potential friend so dont just scare them off.
adi

Well........... firstly is this site cliquey???? ......... on balance I don't think it is. What there is though is a hardcore of perhaps 200 users who post a a lot. Around them is probably another 300 or so users who post a significant amount but not as much as the first lot. These people between them make up a lot of what happens in the forums but not all. There are other people who are well known and respected by the site users for what they do or what they are into but they don't post a lot in here.
All of these users will welcome "new blood" to the site, because that helps to keep the site alive. Yes there is a lot of sarcasm but so what........... just give as good as you get without it getting out of hand and you'll be fine.
With regard to what people post think of it this way........... If a new user comes in here asking about cock length, tit size, or how far can you spurt..... they think they are asking relavent questions. The problem is most users don't find this stuff relevant at all, and as this kind of post comes up with regular monotony, yes they frankly get bored with it, so the sarcasm moves up a notch or two......... we are human after all, and we do get tired of this stuff.
And by the way sending PM's doesn't always work, as people ignore them.
Quote by funkyhull
After only being on this site a short time I must admit I find it terribly exciting. However I do feel sorry for many people who post and then find themselves ridiculed by other members. The site promotes many attributes, one of those being their dedication to newbies. Not everyone knows exactly how to act and they SHOULD check, however seeing some of the responses posted to some 'uneducated' people I feel they should be privatley told insted of publicly embarrased. It would put me off posting in the future so some potential great people could be inhibited.
Im sure that some people will post clever remarks to this post but I feel it just solidifys my point... biggrin
Everyone on here is a potential friend so dont just scare them off.
adi

So you've changed your mind after your first post then:
Quote by funkyhull
Hi to everyone I am a newbie to this website and I am so impressed. I have been interested in this fun way of life for a while and am so happy to see the etiqute and high morals that are shown. Anyway down to business before I bore you. I am a single strait male, 21 years old based in Hull looking to meet up with some new people. Anybody interested give me a shout.
xxx

confused
You get out of this site what you put in. If a person takes so little effort to post and we have a "shag me now" thread then why would we bother dunno
You often find that when they have the piss taken out of them they realise we mean no harm and join in.
To be honest, for a guy thats made 5 other posts, 1 of those being locked by me, I don't really think you are qualifed to comment :shock:
Oh and the same old thing counts here. When you walk into a pub and say "shag me now" or something similar I have a feeling you'd get a slap in the face so just because you are online, that doesn't mean social skills don't count.
Dawn rolleyes
Before you ask, yes I have locked this thread confused