Not under my roof!

17 Jul 2009

im one of those "hip hop" parents who let their kids have sex with their partners at home smile

funny, never been called hip hop before lol
however my kids and me have always talked about sex and contraception and and all the various implications involved
i know they always use contraception, have never had and only do it with longterm partners
no babies have been born because of my lenient attitudes altho id love to have grandkids :)
no pregnances have happened because of my leniient attiudes
we are just all adults who have sex/love lives of some kind
cant see anything wrong with that :)
my mum who wasnt allowed to have her boyfriend stay over, had sex god knows where and got pregnant aged 17
as did my sister !
one of my sisters kids also did the same !
obviously me and my sister come from the same family and were treated similar however the father of my kids had his own place (where i stayed over and had sex) and my sisters didnt !
i feel my hip hop lenient attiutde works far better in my house :)

17 Jul 2009

Quote by kentswingers777
At 18 they are adults. If they can die for their country I don't see any reason why they can't have sex in the comfort of their own bed.
And as for the (completely inexplicable) rule that basically says "no-one me and my spouse can have sex in my house." I don't get that one at all.
I don't necessarily have sex when I visit friends/family. But that's a lot to do with not knowing the wall-thickness situation and being a tad, shall we say, noisy.

Hmmmm.....
In our house there are rules as to what is or is not allowed. I would not allow my Daughter to bring a guy home to shag in her bed when I was right next door. Thank you very much.
I know some will wail....rules?? Yes rules. The same sort of rules that the law uses or....rules that schools use or...rules that employers use. They are everywhere even in my house.
IF they did not like it then I would have suggested they find their own house and they can set their OWN rules, as no doubt they will with their own kids.
(snip)
Our rules and OUR house. Harsh maybe but, call it old fashioned or not hip hop enough, I am not bothered. My kids are older now and they repsect it now and have admited they will probably take the same stance with their kids.
I don't know your daughter's age, but for discussion's sake I'll assume she's over 18 since that was the nub of my comment.
What you are saying is that you would have sex while she is in the next room, but she can't while you are in the next room, even though all parties are adults. It's that dichotomy I don't get. If a parent is embarrased about the possibility of hearing their adult offsrping having sex, surely the adult offspring can be expected to be equally embarrassed?