Browsing through the ads recently I recognised something - not a face, nor a name, but the background. I am 99% sure the photo in the ad was taken in the front room of a business colleague in another city. I've been in that room often and get on well with him and his wife who is lovely. The location was right, the ages were right, it must have been the same room. I don't want to embarrass them, but on the other hand I'd love to get it on with them. But what if I'm wrong and it wasn't them, or worse, if it was one of them and someone else and the other one doesn't know? I could reply to the ad, but that means sending a photo, and the risk then is that they'll know about me but decide not to meet. I'd never know if my colleague was in on my secret or not!
Any advice please?
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Now what do I do?
Hi Wicked Wizard,
Sorry gonna have to get this out my system before I answer you ........ great name
- look into my eyes not round them not over there look into my eyes. Now pick a card, any card, you picked a card, ok ................. 3 of diamonds? :D
Right, done, it's out me system :lol2: OK the business colleague thing. If I was you I would leave it well alone, just because they are swingers and you are too, it doesn't make you compatible sexually :D
Discretion is a big thing with swinging - but if you are curious, then you could drop a hint the next time you see them, not a hint that you wanna shag
It is then up to them if they want to pick up on it. Say something that can be either guided into a swinging conversation, or can be steered clear of - and let them decide which way the conversation will go. If they guide it away, then I'm afraid you should just forget it, completely forget it - as in not tell a single person your thoughts on it. If they guide it into swinging, then you're away :D But I'm still not sure I would admit to seeing their living room online 
tough one that :?
Sorry gonna have to get this out my system before I answer you ........ great name
- look into my eyes not round them not over there look into my eyes. Now pick a card, any card, you picked a card, ok ................. 3 of diamonds? :DRight, done, it's out me system :lol2: OK the business colleague thing. If I was you I would leave it well alone, just because they are swingers and you are too, it doesn't make you compatible sexually :D
Discretion is a big thing with swinging - but if you are curious, then you could drop a hint the next time you see them, not a hint that you wanna shag
It is then up to them if they want to pick up on it. Say something that can be either guided into a swinging conversation, or can be steered clear of - and let them decide which way the conversation will go. If they guide it away, then I'm afraid you should just forget it, completely forget it - as in not tell a single person your thoughts on it. If they guide it into swinging, then you're away :D But I'm still not sure I would admit to seeing their living room online tough one that :? 
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If you're worried about causing embarrasment, then my advice would be to not reply to the ad and dont bring the subject up with your friend. Many people would be uncomfortable swinging with people they know, but are happy to meet strangers, usually due to them not wanting family and friends to find out about their lifestyle.