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is it me or if you look at lot of ads ,couples ,women want Big black about us Asian guys with big cocks or average in my case,white guys,chinese or arab ,not every black guy has a big cock or do they ?What is about blacks guys that turn you women on??Please let me know
Casanova
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Hope you don't mind but I've sent you a PM.
Jezzay
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I know what you mean darling but size isnt everything. I never ask for size in my ads. Its how you use it that is more important and its not the size of a male member that is the only thing to pleasure. What about the tongue, the lips, the hands, the imagination?Lol am am harping on here! :violin:
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Its how you use it that is more important and its not the size of a male member that is the only thing to pleasure. What about the tongue, the lips, the hands, the imagination?

I could not agree more hotstuff, from someone who enjoys using all of the above. lol
By the way welcome to the forum.
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Quote by hotstuff
I know what you mean darling but size isnt everything. I never ask for size in my ads. Its how you use it that is more important and its not the size of a male member that is the only thing to pleasure. What about the tongue, the lips, the hands, the imagination?Lol am am harping on here! :violin:

Spot on Hotstuff. I am sure people looking for particular size/shape/ colour are only looking for 1 offs to fulfil a fantasy. All guys including us average guys should learn technique, likes and dislikes - you cant rely on size.
On a personal note - I am frightened of huge guys, as I link size with pain, so avoid them unless they are str8. I dont know if some women feel the same?
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I did see one photo ad once from a woman looking for "small cocks", but only the one. sad
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I think you've got to accept that there are several types of advertisers. There are the swingers ads, which are mainly looking for people just to swing with, and there are also people advertising to satisfy a fantasy.
Most of the women advertising in the second category have already got a Mr Average at home and are hardly likely to be fantasising about another one. They want something different, something unusual that's going to capture their imagination. It could be anything from a guy with a six pack stripping out of a fireman's uniform to a black guy with a 9" todger suddenly appearing out of the shower. The likelihood is that they aint fantasising about the likes of me and you.
Steve
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Very true but when confronted with their fantasies do you think they would welcome them with open arms or turn and run LOL----an interesting thought!
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Hotstuff wrote :-
"What about the Tongue" wink
Errrrrrmmmmmmm excuse me Hotstuff but i havent touched you yet
Orgasminator
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The best description I EVER heard was from chubby brown...I have a cock like a blind cobblers thumb......makes me smile a lot to imagine it....
In a world gone plastic surgery mad, we have an option...if the pain, the price makes you feel better, go for it...BUT like many will tell you it will not change the person inside?
I have so many wishes about myself, I just smile because I have no real hang ups in life, but I know their are some who have major issues! Live it to the full, what you have, you were MEANT to have, like it or not it is you...?
RH
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In a world gone plastic surgery mad, we have an option..

Do we? I thought that penis enlargement operations were supposed to be EXTREMELY dodgy.
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Oh man, just seen an advert in the "couple seeking men" section where a guy's 7-inch penis is described as "very small". rolleyes
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Oh man, just seen an advert in the "couple seeking men" section where a guy's 7-inch penis is described as "very small". rolleyes

-----and with comments in ads like that is it any wonder guys get paranoid!! Bless them---the poor souls do have feelings you now LOL
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I refuse to measure mine.... I did once ask if I was vwe.... It was described as 'average size', but with a very sociable demeanor.... I took that as a complement and asked no more.
redface surprisedops: :oops:
(I would not know where to measure from/ to anyway)
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I think some of these guys measure theirs from the cheeks of their arse to about 2 inches beyond the tip. Either that or they are trapping their foreskin in the door and walking backwards as far as they can before putting the tape measure on it. lol
As for 7" being very small, it reminds me of something that an instructor said to me when I was doing my basic training in the Navy. He'd had a romantic liaison the night before and said "It was like hanging your dick out of the window and fucking the world". I don't think I'll ever forget that one. rotflmao
Steve
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I think some of these guys measure theirs from the cheeks of their arse to about 2 inches beyond the tip.

You mean that's not the right way to do it? lol
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Fact is that black guys have the same size as white guys on average, its only the ones in porn that have massive ones and thats why they are in porn, to fufill this made up idea.
Yeah, I always thought women wanted technique, foreplay an oral but the girl I went with cared more about being done then anything else.