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erm..........i was talking to someone interested in having a 4sum,this couple being a bit younger than my parents.
when talking to this person he asked me if my "mum" was into swinging!!!!......and if so could he have a pic of her...............this really freaked me out as my sexual preferences arnt discussed at my parents over sunday dinner..
Anyways what im asking is shall i speak to this person again????????? or take it on the chin...................it did wonders for my confidence confused
thnx
Unless you want to make some psychiatrist very happy for years to come, I would suggest you nicely say "Thanks, but no thanks"
well thats what i thought.................................it did freak me out!!!!!!!!
even if my mom was into swinging i wouldnt have any "pics" of her!!! mad
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Unless you want to make some psychiatrist very happy for years to come, I suggest you nicely say "Thanks, but no thanks"

Infact i wouldnt even say thanks!!! :shock: :shock:
I'm being serious here. Tell him to feck off!
Its either someone with with psychological issues, or some scumbag journalist lookng for the next story about sleaze and debauchery in the swinging community.
I know how you feel bailiffs ! when we first started into this scene , and before we started using the forum i was chatting to a guy on msn and he asked if he could watch me pee :shock: i promptly said goodbye and blocked him off confused i know some people like that sort of thing , but it just came as a shock when the question was asked rolleyes :?
You should have said 'Do you mind, this is YOUR mum you're talking to!'
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I'm being serious here. Tell him to feck off!

to true
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Anyways what im asking is shall i speak to this person again????????? or take it on the chin...................it did wonders for my confidence confused
thnx

I'm surprised you even need to ask the question. If we all said go for it would it make any difference to your decision?
Judy

no dont suppose , i just thought i dont know that i maybe was being abit to hasty and they said they were joking after !!!
I know we'd be laughing to ourselves by now, but seriously just reply back with a polite and serious no mate... This guys obvoiusly serious and I'm guessing that, that is his sexual preference... We cant all be the same, just be civil and decline to answer his post.
Lou,
You know that there are all sorts in the world but when you actually come into contact with someone who is so far removed from what you are interested in it does come as a surprise! :shock: If that guy rocks your boat than go for it but if he doesn't don't waste any more time on him (though a 'no thank you' note is just polite). All I can say is 'aim high' and find the sorts of people you really want to have fun with rather than accepting people who are less than ideal. You may not have a large quantity of experiences that way but the quality will more than make up for it!
H
Think a polite No Thank You is in order here
then bolt
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Lou,
You know that there are all sorts in the world but when you actually come into contact with someone who is so far removed from what you are interested in it does come as a surprise! :shock: If that guy rocks your boat than go for it but if he doesn't don't waste any more time on him (though a 'no thank you' note is just polite). All I can say is 'aim high' and find the sorts of people you really want to have fun with rather than accepting people who are less than ideal. You may not have a large quantity of experiences that way but the quality will more than make up for it!
H

lol no he dont rock my boat i think it's going to have to be a no plus he doesn't respect when i say no it means no!!!!! keeps going on and on for my number to meet up behind mr bailifs back!!!!!! argghhhh!!!! i think ill just out him on ignore!!!!
lou xx
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Lou,
You know that there are all sorts in the world but when you actually come into contact with someone who is so far removed from what you are interested in it does come as a surprise! :shock: If that guy rocks your boat than go for it but if he doesn't don't waste any more time on him (though a 'no thank you' note is just polite). All I can say is 'aim high' and find the sorts of people you really want to have fun with rather than accepting people who are less than ideal. You may not have a large quantity of experiences that way but the quality will more than make up for it!
H

lol no he dont rock my boat i think it's going to have to be a no plus he doesn't respect when i say no it means no!!!!! keeps going on and on for my number to meet up behind mr bailifs back!!!!!! argghhhh!!!! i think ill just out him on ignore!!!!
lou xx
Sounds like the mom thing may have been a joke (just ask him if he's got any pics of his Mom wink ).
But if he's not taking no as "NO" then forget him and if, when he's asking you to go behind Mr. Bs back, he's serious you really do need to think if you want to be involved with this person at all.
Can I ask if this is through PMs or is it through MSN/ /email etc?
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Lou,
You know that there are all sorts in the world but when you actually come into contact with someone who is so far removed from what you are interested in it does come as a surprise! :shock: If that guy rocks your boat than go for it but if he doesn't don't waste any more time on him (though a 'no thank you' note is just polite). All I can say is 'aim high' and find the sorts of people you really want to have fun with rather than accepting people who are less than ideal. You may not have a large quantity of experiences that way but the quality will more than make up for it!
H

lol no he dont rock my boat i think it's going to have to be a no plus he doesn't respect when i say no it means no!!!!! keeps going on and on for my number to meet up behind mr bailifs back!!!!!! argghhhh!!!! i think ill just out him on ignore!!!!
lou xx
Do you have proof they're a couple? Sound's suspiciously like a single guy masquerading as one to me
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Lou,
You know that there are all sorts in the world but when you actually come into contact with someone who is so far removed from what you are interested in it does come as a surprise! :shock: If that guy rocks your boat than go for it but if he doesn't don't waste any more time on him (though a 'no thank you' note is just polite). All I can say is 'aim high' and find the sorts of people you really want to have fun with rather than accepting people who are less than ideal. You may not have a large quantity of experiences that way but the quality will more than make up for it!
H

lol no he dont rock my boat i think it's going to have to be a no plus he doesn't respect when i say no it means no!!!!! keeps going on and on for my number to meet up behind mr bailifs back!!!!!! argghhhh!!!! i think ill just out him on ignore!!!!
lou xx
Sounds like the mom thing may have been a joke (just ask him if he's got any pics of his Mom wink ).
But if he's not taking no as "NO" then forget him and if, when he's asking you to go behind Mr. Bs back, he's serious you really do need to think if you want to be involved with this person at all.
Can I ask if this is through PMs or is it through MSN/ /email etc?
well first he emailed and then added me and spoke to me through msn.
and he was being deadly serious (he's around the same age as my parents)
louxx
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Anyways what im asking is shall i speak to this person again????????? or take it on the chin...................it did wonders for my confidence confused
thnx

I'm surprised you even need to ask the question. If we all said go for it would it make any difference to your decision?
Judy

And even if that issue didn't come up I would've thought just your opinion of this person(s) would've swayed any decisions dunno
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lol no he dont rock my boat i think it's going to have to be a no plus he doesn't respect when i say no it means no!!!!! keeps going on and on for my number to meet up behind mr bailifs back!!!!!! argghhhh!!!! i think ill just out him on ignore!!!!
lou xx
well any further updates bailiffs ?