If a female is pleasuring me orally or when we are having intercourse, is it necessary for me to occasionally tell her or express to her how good what she is doing feels? In other words, some people groan, grunt, and tell their partners when they do something right, therefore their partner knows you are enjoying whatever they are doing. Is this good idea?
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Oh that good !!!
Well, on the one hand if you don't tell her what you like, hows she going to know? Plus, as the old saying goes, if you want to get a second blow-job it helps to make the other person feel good about giving the first one.
But necessary - I guess that's between you and your partner. Different people relate in different ways... some people don't say a word during sex, others shout out YES YES OH GOD YES; some like to give instructions, saying "lick there, suck there, harder, softer...", while others let the giver get on with trying to hit the right spot. If silence feels most comfortable for you and your partner, then it's not absolutely "necessary" for you to give a running commentary of grunts and groans.
I'm guessing there's some deeper reason behind the question you asked, though...
But necessary - I guess that's between you and your partner. Different people relate in different ways... some people don't say a word during sex, others shout out YES YES OH GOD YES; some like to give instructions, saying "lick there, suck there, harder, softer...", while others let the giver get on with trying to hit the right spot. If silence feels most comfortable for you and your partner, then it's not absolutely "necessary" for you to give a running commentary of grunts and groans.
I'm guessing there's some deeper reason behind the question you asked, though...
Do whatever happens naturally. If someone is getting that intimate with you, they want you, not you pretending to be the way someone has told you to be on a website!
Personally, I find there is nothing less satisfying than faked porn-film moans, and nothing more satisfying than making someone naturally quiet lose control and make a racket!
As far as feedback goes, someone who really wants to give you a great time can get a lot of feedback from involuntary signs, like speed and depth of breathing, muscles tensing, and of course the old favourites - wetness & firmness :-)
Personally, I find there is nothing less satisfying than faked porn-film moans, and nothing more satisfying than making someone naturally quiet lose control and make a racket!
As far as feedback goes, someone who really wants to give you a great time can get a lot of feedback from involuntary signs, like speed and depth of breathing, muscles tensing, and of course the old favourites - wetness & firmness :-)
Orgasminator
can i suggest you get one of those England car flags, hold in left hand as the orgasm approaches raise it, when it hits wave vigorously, most blokes i know will spot this better than the butterfly type contractions a lot of women have as an orgasm,
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Orgasminator
no ffs dont shout goal, shout goal for xxxxxxxxxx be specific to the team he follows, if you dont he may think hes popped it up the wrong hole.
Orgasminator
your stuck between a rock and a hard place, if you shouted goal for Boro he'd think you were faking it
Orgasminator
its great that we are all different isnt it?nothing better than finding out how a new girl reacts to her orgasm, got to admit im not into the rips great chunks out of my back stuff or the biting of my lower lip typesbut they are both better than the did you cum scenario?
Orgasminator
cant say ive come across that one, big headed smiley face
Orgasminator
Vocal is the best, if Im enjoying myself then I want him/her to know!
Maybe im just an exhibitionist.
Maybe im just an exhibitionist.
Orgasminator
get out of here, an exhibitionist on here ? shocked what kind of a site is this?
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As far as feedback goes, someone who really wants to give you a great time can get a lot of feedback from involuntary signs, like speed and depth of breathing, muscles tensing, and of course the old favourites - wetness & firmness :-)
What about the hole that you make in the back of their neck as your cum hits the celing!
Orgasminator
Quote by foxylady 123
I think its vital that you make some sort of noise at this stage, otherwise how is the poor girl in question going to know if you have fallen asleep or not?
I was once going down on a woman in a 69... after a while she started moaning, then came the oh shit, oh god... I thought I was doing welll....
Then came the "jesus, i've got fucking cramp in my leg"
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Sex God
i have NEVER understoood all the "fake noise" stuff, why pretend you have had an orgasm? 
if i have not had one.. the last thing i would do is pretend to have had one... i damn well WANT him to know he has not made me cum yet!!
ffs.... how else are u going to ensure he gets right back on the job?!
personally i like my men to tell me when it feels good... then i can assume that when they dont respond at all.. its perhaps not as pleasurable.. and i can vary my technique accordingly.
WBB
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if i have not had one.. the last thing i would do is pretend to have had one... i damn well WANT him to know he has not made me cum yet!!
ffs.... how else are u going to ensure he gets right back on the job?!
personally i like my men to tell me when it feels good... then i can assume that when they dont respond at all.. its perhaps not as pleasurable.. and i can vary my technique accordingly.
WBB
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Sex God
My advice is, if they make no noise and you suspect they're dead or sleeping :shock: , give them a firm chew on a sensitive area :twisted: . This always wakes the sleeping ones up, for the others..... well, time to call the undertaker!
Sex God
blue, you seem to be a bit hasty in your calling of the undertaker........ perhaps wait till AFTER the rigour mortis! :twisted:
Sex God
We make loads of noise but its cramp and arthiritis with us these days
Sex God
There's a point, WBB :twisted: ... but the very thought of THAT makes me feel necrophobic (afraid of the dead) = yeaugh!!!!!
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Eveready are even readyer when they get warmed up if this is the only way of me telling that i have pleasured you then so be it. Not really into this posting messages in public malarky but seeing all these people commenting on ME i just had to. I don't do my washing in public!
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OUCH ! ! ! !
Dude. Use the PM box
