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ok first meet didnt go to plan what next?
Orgasminator
Quote by dekntan
had our first meet tnite and things didnt click so they made excuses and left
whats next?
Was it their first time too? It might not have been your fault at all but they had reasons. So don't be disheartened. Better luck next time.
Sex God
You just try again!! That happens to everyone.
John & Shel
John & Shel
Quote by dekntan
had our first meet tnite and things didnt click so they made excuses and left
whats next?
Next time double book...
Then if one couple goes home, there is always the other couple.. if they both decide to stay then you have a gang bang :giggle:
On a serious note!
Don't fret, not everyone clicks with everyone and there is no way of really telling until you meet.
We have spoke to some people that are real fun and friendly over the net, got to meet them and sticking it in would of been like trying to stick two of the same magnetic poles together
Happens to us all, just forget about it and move on, you will be sure to find someone you both like like sooner or later :D
Tony
I've had good meets where we both agree on taking things further. I've had meets where I'm happy to meet again only to be told I didn't rock their boat. I've had to tell people thanks but I don't think it would work.
As in the vanilla world, you meet people you don't fancy, don't like, don't even want to be in the same county as sometimes.
Chalk it up to experience and look for new people.
Good luck :thumbup:
As in the vanilla world, you meet people you don't fancy, don't like, don't even want to be in the same county as sometimes.
Chalk it up to experience and look for new people.
Good luck :thumbup:
Sex God
The social girly meet that didn't go to plan
She turned in to the serivce station on the motorway, but missed the services and ended up back on the motorway heading South!!
Giggley phone call to me, 'I think I went wrong some where'
Me to giggley:- I'll meet you at the next services down !!!
:lol: :lol:
Still smiling and chuckling aobut that now!!
She turned in to the serivce station on the motorway, but missed the services and ended up back on the motorway heading South!!
Giggley phone call to me, 'I think I went wrong some where'
Me to giggley:- I'll meet you at the next services down !!!
:lol: :lol:
Still smiling and chuckling aobut that now!!
Quote by Sarah
The social girly meet that didn't go to plan
She turned in to the serivce station on the motorway, but missed the services and ended up back on the motorway heading South!!
Giggley phone call to me, 'I think I went wrong some where'
Me to giggley:- I'll meet you at the next services down !!!
:lol: :lol:
Still smiling and chuckling aobut that now!!
She sounds like a right donut
Sex God
Quote by dekntanwe have done that before chatted for a bit met up and either not our cup of tea or they wanted some thing extra that was not going to happen even after all was agreed before the actual meet just get back into the swing of things it will happen when its right.
nope was not their first meet
u win some u lose some but didnt realise we were actually that scary :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by dekntan
had our first meet tnite and things didnt click so they made excuses and left
whats next?
As everyone has said........... In a nutshell put it behind you and carry on.
As an example we have never had any success meeting people in a munch situation, but at socials it has been quite a bit different, and meeting people through LMU has always been 100% sucessful. We have had fun, and made some very good friends this way.
Work out what works for you, and the kind of people you like, and are successful with and then go for it.
M
Well as said this has happened to all that actually meet people, at least they turned up, its a start lol....!!
Don't be put off, no one can float everyones boat. There will even be times you meet people and make your own excuses to leave.. Its what makes it so much fun in a way, if all were perfect it would be too easy. Just keep trying...
Mike and Julie x
Don't be put off, no one can float everyones boat. There will even be times you meet people and make your own excuses to leave.. Its what makes it so much fun in a way, if all were perfect it would be too easy. Just keep trying...
Mike and Julie x
Sex God
Quote by Sassy-Seren
The social girly meet that didn't go to plan
That reminds me! Another girls night in Chez Sassy is on the cards :thumbup:
Yes please, if I'm invited, I'll try and make this one :giggle:
Quote by mdr2000
at least they turned up
my sentiments exactly.... plus i agree with what everyone else has said.
the same thing happened to me some time ago... it was a little hard to take... but in line with some freat advice that id read on the forum.. i took it on the chin...
being a ballsey bastard i asked them what the issue was.......... the answer was something that i didnt look like my picture.......... what a crock !!!!
anyhow... their loss...
good luck for the future..........
