I went out this evening to meet up with an old friend that I had not seen since I was 20, some 28 years ago. Out of all the things I wanted to tell her about this last year was the formost in my mind, but of course I couldnt say anything.
Does anyone out there tell their friends everything? is anyone open? or are we the last lot to be still found in the closet?
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Sorry 3rd, cant make out what you are saying....you wanted to tell her about your swinging, is that what you meant?
I have learnt that the only person I can trust completely is Mike, my hubby.
I have shared confidences with others, been let down, so now I just keep my self to my self!
I would not like others to judge me on my swinging activties, so have never shared them with vanilla friends.
It is something I like to talk about though, thats why these sites are good, you can find the odd one or two, and talk about your life style without fear of being found out.
To trust others, you have to be able to be trusted as well!
Lucys post.
I have learnt that the only person I can trust completely is Mike, my hubby.
I have shared confidences with others, been let down, so now I just keep my self to my self!
I would not like others to judge me on my swinging activties, so have never shared them with vanilla friends.
It is something I like to talk about though, thats why these sites are good, you can find the odd one or two, and talk about your life style without fear of being found out.
To trust others, you have to be able to be trusted as well!
Lucys post.
I consider myself very lucky. My best friend of 20+ years is on here too! I could blame her for getting me involved!! lol. There is nothing that I can't tell her about and visa versa.
At my age, it tends to be unusual to still have friends that you went to school move around so much. I have returned to the town of my birth and tend to bump into people in tesco!
I could probably tell some of my other friends but don't feel the need as I can share my experiences with my very best friend.
Many people come in and out of our lives, some briefly and some stay for ever. True friendship, I believe to be very rare these days. My opinion only.
Wench xx
At my age, it tends to be unusual to still have friends that you went to school move around so much. I have returned to the town of my birth and tend to bump into people in tesco!
I could probably tell some of my other friends but don't feel the need as I can share my experiences with my very best friend.
Many people come in and out of our lives, some briefly and some stay for ever. True friendship, I believe to be very rare these days. My opinion only.
Wench xx
Quote by Lucyandmike7
Sorry 3rd, cant make out what you are saying....you wanted to tell her about your swinging, is that what you meant?
I have learnt that the only person I can trust completely is Mike, my hubby.
I have shared confidences with others, been let down, so now I just keep my self to my self!
I would not like others to judge me on my swinging activties, so have never shared them with vanilla friends.
It is something I like to talk about though, thats why these sites are good, you can find the odd one or two, and talk about your life style without fear of being found out.
To trust others, you have to be able to be trusted as well!
Lucys post.
Yes, sorry lucy, didn't make myself clear, was a tad drunk lol. I wanted to tell her all about what we had been doing as far as swinging goes. There are not any vanilla friends I would tell because I really don't think they would understand it... but she just might having not seen me for a long time and knowing how wild I was as a young man.
It is good that we have this site and it is good that I, and I say I because Atre never comes on to chat or post, have made one or two friends that, even should we stop swinging I would like to keep in contact with.
Anyway, I didn't tell her and I think it was probably the right thing to do.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Never tell anyone anything while drunk, as you might regret when sober.
The difficulty is in realising you are drunk and stopping the words from coming out of your mouth
I doesn't matter what you say - you can never unsay it. The person you are talking to may be as drunk as you and may not remember it but then again...I'm going teetotal
Quote by fluff_n_stuff
Never tell anyone anything while drunk, as you might regret when sober.
The difficulty is in realising you are drunk and stopping the words from coming out of your mouth
I doesn't matter what you say - you can never unsay it. The person you are talking to may be as drunk as you and may not remember it but then again...I'm going teetotal
Yes, I once told a meet he was my best shag ever!!!
Mike just laughed!!
Now I say it to em all!!!!!
Quote by Lucyandmike7
Never tell anyone anything while drunk, as you might regret when sober.
The difficulty is in realising you are drunk and stopping the words from coming out of your mouth
I doesn't matter what you say - you can never unsay it. The person you are talking to may be as drunk as you and may not remember it but then again...I'm going teetotal
Yes, I once told a meet he was my best shag ever!!!
Mike just laughed!!
Now I say it to em all!!!!!
I am glad I don't drink I can only imagine what I would say 
I'm not shy about the fact that I like sex or the fact that I am a member of this site.
However my sexual proclivities rarely come up in conversation with my wider circle of friends. I'm as likely to discuss my favourite wanking techniques with friends and colleagues as I am to discuss how I find people to explore my sexuality with. Its just not relevant.
However my sexual proclivities rarely come up in conversation with my wider circle of friends. I'm as likely to discuss my favourite wanking techniques with friends and colleagues as I am to discuss how I find people to explore my sexuality with. Its just not relevant.
