Old Steam Room Stuff

9 Oct 2005

Quote by diezel
:idea: Its seeeems a little mutual RESPECT is what we need for each. This could be a Wonderful Life style to be shared. So much arrogance, prejudice, and definately counter SWINGing postering................... :arrow: Lets all be a little bit more sensitive to each others needs. Tooooooooooooo much bitching
deiz.

Oh please. Compared the volume of daft PMs, the bitching is remarkably rare! lol

11 Oct 2005

I'm really pissed off this morning mad

Yesterday I logged on to discover I had a pm. I got all excited wondering who it was from :bounce:
Clicked on the PM thingy but it wasn't there :eeek:
Someone decided not to send me that pm and since then I can't stop thinking about who it was and why they changed their mind evil

Its bugging the shit out of me rolleyes

:x
There - that feels better biggrin

11 Oct 2005

Angel Chat - it is not funny to send me pms then deleted them, then pm me to brag your doing it on purpose.
Pack it in woman mad

:x :x

Angel

11 Oct 2005

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
What? dunno

I dunno what you're on about loon

:loon:

11 Oct 2005

Quote by Dawn_Mids
I'm really pissed off this morning
Yesterday I logged on to discover I had a pm. I got all excited wondering who it was from :bounce:
Clicked on the PM thingy but it wasn't there :eeek:
Someone decided not to send me that pm and since then I can't stop thinking about who it was and why they changed their mind
Its bugging the shit out of me :x
There - that feels better

hehehe
Some poor soul asked for a shag then thought better of it lol

And NOOOOO it was not me
luv from :love: from phredd
ps Oh good morning by the way

11 Oct 2005

Having enjoyed some racy Thursday and saturday nights in 2004 and earlier this year we have been very dissapointed at the lack of numbers now attending Partners in Bury and in particular on a Saturday the ratio of guys to couples which has gone through the roof and it is now almost spot the couple.
To make it worse the last time we went someone had left 'a mess' on the floor of the changing rooms and didn't even have the decency to clean it up, the smell was absolutely nauseating and the lasting sick feeling in our stomach has mean't that we have not been back since.
We understand that two new venues have opened in the North West (Infusion in Blackpool and one in the Wirral) is this the reason for the decline in popularity of partners? Has anyone been to Infusion on sat night? Can you recomend it?
We looking for a hot night out on saturdays this winter and not at Cupids!! (That is another story ! - I mean how can guys follow you around staying about an inch away from you then stop and stand next to you and not look at you as if they all innocently just happened to be there?)
Thanks

11 Oct 2005

@ "innocently standing two centimetres away"
I personally won't be going back to partners on a mixed night anytime soon due to the amount of hassle my partner and I got last time we went.
It was a group of about 4/5 guys who hovered on the landing like vultures and took it turns to knock on the doors of the private rooms.. When politely told to go away they proceded to knock and knock until we actually couldn't play. We got dressed and came home with an apology from reception about our complaint and an assurance that it doesn't norammly happen... erm then why did it happen the previous two times we've been in there then??? confused

Until they can be bothered looking after their guests a bit more then I won't be forking out my money to go.
kiss

Gem, x

11 Oct 2005

Quote by Too Hot
We understand that two new venues have opened in the North West (Infusion in Blackpool and one in the Wirral) is this the reason for the decline in popularity of partners? Has anyone been to Infusion on sat night? Can you recomend it?

We went to the Townhouse (Wirral) on Saturaday. There were probably 25 - 30 couples there and only 2 single guys.:shock: It was the first time we've been so don't know how representative that is.
Friends went to Infusion on Saturday (6 couples) and said it was a very nice place but there were only another 9 couples there, so if they hadn't gone it would have been very quiet presumably.
Partners has definitely gone downhill regarding numbers but I think this was happening before the new clubs opened. We were never enamoured with the place anyway, just going when we wanted a good jacuzzi. It has the worst behaved guys of any club we've been to. We last went a couple of Wednesdays ago and there were only 2 other couples, a single fem and about 9 single guys.

11 Oct 2005

25 - 30 couples !! That is impressive. I don't think we have ever been anywhere with that number of couples around for a long time
It is interesting to hear other whinges about Partners, though we can't understand why - it has just fabulous facilities and could/should be fantastic.
Any recommends for this Saturday night then anyone? We enjoy mmf threesomes, mffm foursomes and get off on occasional really fleshy multiple partner orgy's.
We so upset about Partners 'cos it is so local to us and handy to get to - Infusion and Townhouse is a serious drive away

11 Oct 2005

Yes, the numbers attending Partners is probably less than it was last year. I do recall a period when I used to go regularly where Saturdays were packed with both couples and single guys. The last time I went on a Saturday (several weeks ago) it was very quiet, though there were quite a few couples in -- it actually seemed to be the single guys who were thin on the ground :shock: . I did go a few Thursdays back to couples night and although it wassn't busy it was reasonably well attended. I think it's probably more hit and miss than it was a few months ago, but I've always found it clean and I've never had any huge problems with the single guys --- yeah, there are sometimes one or two knobheads in, but there are in any club, and I've always found Partners to have less of a problem with guys following and being annoying than at some other clubs.
I kinda think that clubs go in cycles. One gets very popular for a while, then people try new places, or whatever. That seemed to happen with Cupids a couple of years back I seem to recall in my dim and distant past. I don't think Partners is dead by any means, and I'll keep going cos I like it cool

11 Oct 2005

OK its not very often i scream about things not really in me
But what gets me is when you have had some fun with a chap in a club ................and you go the next time...and they expect the same off of you!............. you say sorry not after that tonight!........... and then they just ignore you ..........you get into the Jacuzzi and they try it on hands every where! mad

you say again sorry not tonight OK ...but they still bloody try! thay follow you every ware! :x :x
now i hate upsetting peeps as i am a bit sensitive ............. and i no i ought to turn around and say fook off .......but some how i cannot........ i told one man close to it ..................and all he did all night was star at me...bloody frightened the shit out of me! :eeek:

11 Oct 2005

hi,we were there sat and had a good nite smile

but have to agree its not what it used to thing we have found though is we have never really been bothered or followed to the point that it has pissed us blue said you always get the odd last time we went to cupids the door banging happened to us there and that spoilt the nite sad

. we have also thought about going to town house but its a bit far away, but maybe one nite

11 Oct 2005

This is kind of a Rant and kind of a site question.
How reliable are the pm's? I have sent a few out at different times to people who are usually very polite and recieved no reply (As part of an ongoing conversation or similar), now I have always assumed that the reason I have had no further pm's is because the person concerned no longer wanted to talk to me, but I have also had a couple of people say they never received my pm and I have a couple of times never received one someone said they sent.
I am quite reluctant to send out follow up pm's because in my opinion if someone doesn't want to talk to me then that is their deciscion, however if the pm's are a bit unreliable sometimes I am willing to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Roger. cool

11 Oct 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
This is kind of a Rant and kind of a site question.
How reliable are the pm's? I have sent a few out at different times to people who are usually very polite and recieved no reply (As part of an ongoing conversation or similar), now I have always assumed that the reason I have had no further pm's is because the person concerned no longer wanted to talk to me, but I have also had a couple of people say they never received my pm and I have a couple of times never received one someone said they sent.
I am quite reluctant to send out follow up pm's because in my opinion if someone doesn't want to talk to me then that is their deciscion, however if the pm's are a bit unreliable sometimes I am willing to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Roger.

I've been having the same problem roger and I am aware of others with the same problem, spoke to a mod about it a few weeks ago who said she would look into it. smile

11 Oct 2005

Quote by kazswallows
This is kind of a Rant and kind of a site question.
How reliable are the pm's? I have sent a few out at different times to people who are usually very polite and recieved no reply (As part of an ongoing conversation or similar), now I have always assumed that the reason I have had no further pm's is because the person concerned no longer wanted to talk to me, but I have also had a couple of people say they never received my pm and I have a couple of times never received one someone said they sent.
I am quite reluctant to send out follow up pm's because in my opinion if someone doesn't want to talk to me then that is their deciscion, however if the pm's are a bit unreliable sometimes I am willing to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Roger.

I've been having the same problem roger and I am aware of others with the same problem, spoke to a mod about it a few weeks ago who said she would look into it. smile

It sounds like I need to resend a few pm's then and risk being an annoying pest to those people who dont like me. :twisted: lol

11 Oct 2005

its unfortunate but it seems to be the case,more so on-line and as many women will testify with endless stories of verbal and sometimes de-grading abuse they recieve .I feel this may in someway be the perception of a large proportion of males feel that because the women enter into this lifestyle that they are easy "lays" .
pherhaps the medias sleaxy views of the lifestyle when reported on fuels there wayward thinking or the fact its deemed to be a "underground" movement or the more realistic view is that they would get a sever kick in the nether regions if they tried it on with real women in there local clubs and pubs as they do on-line or pherhaps the internet has given these peeps so much choice that they are playing the numbers game and therefore feel the politeness and curtious are not required
unfortunatly what will happen either it will drive this lifestyle further underground or the women will slowly fade away or possibilly come out full force into the open and drive off all the myths and miss truths i fear the latter willnot happen in our lifetime due to our countrys piers being so pruddish
sorry for the rant and ravei feelfor the women as theses animals is a reason my wife dont come on so much

12 Oct 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
This is kind of a Rant and kind of a site question.
How reliable are the pm's? I have sent a few out at different times to people who are usually very polite and recieved no reply (As part of an ongoing conversation or similar), now I have always assumed that the reason I have had no further pm's is because the person concerned no longer wanted to talk to me, but I have also had a couple of people say they never received my pm and I have a couple of times never received one someone said they sent.
I am quite reluctant to send out follow up pm's because in my opinion if someone doesn't want to talk to me then that is their deciscion, however if the pm's are a bit unreliable sometimes I am willing to give people the benefit of the doubt.
Roger.

This has happened to me a few times, and I think I may have a possible answer. (There, that sounded pretty confident, didn't it? lol

)
As you know, if you delete something from your Outbox, it immediately disappears from the recipient's inbox and they will never see it.
I was under the impression that once the recipient has opened the PM you sent, deleting it from your Sentbox will have no effect on their Inbox. However, this may not be the case. I was reading a PM which I did not answer immediately, and when I closed the message, it vanished. Turns out the sender deleted his copy from his Sentbox while I was reading it. If I hadn't noticed at the time, I could have come back later and seeing it wasn't there I might have assumed that I had answered it and deleted it myself, or if certain people's opinion of my memory is correct, I might have forgotten it was ever there at all.
I now make a point of not deleting anything I'm expecting a reply to, until I have actually received a reply, and the glitch hasn't recurred since.

12 Oct 2005

Gotta let off steam about this............
Gen_Herts_Cpl mentioned they were holidaying in the US right in the middle of Gay Day Whatever!!!
Why do gays have to celebrate it ffs........ is there a hetero special day???
Do heterosexual people run around mincing 'Hey! Look at me, I'm straight!'
.........grrrrrrrrrrrr ....... Gay people seem to think that being gay affords them special status... why? ffs...... . nothing special about sticking ur dick up another guy's shitter is there? Or one woman going down on another woman ... er.. well maybe there is ..... hehehe ...... but my point is..... if you're gay .. keep it to yaself!!!!!........ no need to shove it down everyone else's throat is there!!!!

12 Oct 2005

wishy, I am actually offended. sad

12 Oct 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
OK its not very often i scream about things not really in me
But what gets me is when you have had some fun with a chap in a club ................and you go the next time...and they expect the same off of you!............. you say sorry not after that tonight!........... and then they just ignore you ..........you get into the Jacuzzi and they try it on hands every where!
you say again sorry not tonight OK ...but they still bloody try! thay follow you every ware! :x :x
now i hate upsetting peeps as i am a bit sensitive ............. and i no i ought to turn around and say fook off .......but some how i cannot........ i told one man close to it ..................and all he did all night was star at me...bloody frightened the shit out of me! :eeek:

Debs, you're not the only one.
I went clubbing yesterday afternoon and a guy kept pulling me around on the bed even after he stroked my leg and I shook my head, then he did it again... I said no thanks very clearly, he then wanked in my face and asked if he could come in my face.... erm.... it was a no.....
However he stayed there and said again can I come on your face........
My reply>>>>> come on me and I'll fucking rips your balls off. Got it??? It's a no! :x

12 Oct 2005

Quote by little gem
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????

12 Oct 2005

You know what piss's me off........parents pushing prams while smoking and even worse holding children while smoking!! mad

12 Oct 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????
I weren't too chuffed either.... you actually know better than this. I know you aren't homophobic so that's not where your rant is coming from, but it'll be very easy for someone to judge it as such. Or even take some comfort that someone else on this site is ranting at homosexuality.
Personally I don't give 2 gay monkies wanks who has a day for whatever... but the simple point is, with your particular rant, this: I am glad this particular day does happen. I am not getting involved in any way, but i know how much homophobia there still is in this society. It's bringing stuff out of the closet. It's showing young gay people that there is more to being homosexual than the effette, "nancy-boy" image , or the butch cat loving dykes stereotype.
Just one example. Maybe when someone who is on the verge of denying their sexuality and being miserable sees the Gay and Lesbian Police Officers Assoc on a Big Gay parade, and unashamedly Out, they will not only have their prejuidices dispelled, but maybe be more inclined to report homophobic attacks...
Anyhows... you want some more... go and re-read what I wrote when you last came out with such bollox. lol

..... and relax!

12 Oct 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
nothing special about sticking ur dick up another guy's shitter is there?

gotta say you could have worded it better :thumbup:
but i do agree with where you are coming from, gays want 2 be treated as equals, and so they should, so why do they need their own day?

12 Oct 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????
The us and them attitude you're showing.
People who are gay are what they are same as straight folk.... however most minorities have a celebration of their culture, Irish festival for example.
The gay culture, not all homosexual people take part in and it doesn't effect the way they integrate into society as people in their own right. People who are gay have feelings and are still sometimes descriminated against. Celebrations... It's a solidarity thing and good for people to realise that not everyone is the same but we can all get along.
No-one has to shove anything down anyone's throats, literally or otherwise and the terminolgy you use to decribe things I find crude and provocatively written.
I am not saying you have to change your views as they are your own and you're entitled to them... however I do think even though this is the steam room, thinking about how you write things is still needed.
kiss

Gem. x

12 Oct 2005

Quote by da69ve
You know what piss's me off........parents pushing prams while smoking and even worse holding children while smoking!!

no no no no NO
don't get me started ffs
pregnant women who smoke should have their kids taken off them, i know thats going 2 offend many women who have smoked while pregnant but how can you claim to love the child you have forced to smoke in its most critical stages of development? the harm that can be caused is known to all but they still do it :shock:

12 Oct 2005

Quote by postie
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????
I weren't too chuffed either.... you actually know better than this. I know you aren't homophobic so that's not where your rant is coming from, but it'll be very easy for someone to judge it as such. Or even take some comfort that someone else on this site is ranting at homosexuality.
Personally I don't give 2 gay monkies wanks who has a day for whatever... but the simple point is, with your particular rant, this: I am glad this particular day does happen. I am not getting involved in any way, but i know how much homophobia there still is in this society. It's bringing stuff out of the closet. It's showing young gay people that there is more to being homosexual than the effette, "nancy-boy" image , or the butch cat loving dykes stereotype.
Just one example. Maybe when someone who is on the verge of denying their sexuality and being miserable sees the Gay and Lesbian Police Officers Assoc on a Big Gay parade, and unashamedly Out, they will not only have their prejuidices dispelled, but maybe be more inclined to report homophobic attacks...
Anyhows... you want some more... go and re-read what I wrote when you last came out with such bollox. lol

..... and relax!
I stand by what I said . ok maybe the WAY I posted was a bit flippant but I inteneded it to be no more than a light hearted pun-filled post with a serious edge to it. Most know that when I put hehehe's in my posts I'm usually having a giggle.... but I still think that gay people should shut the fook up about their sexuality and get on with their lives....
.... my own sexuality is known by a few in here .... so nobody can say I am prejudiced towards gay people. I just see no need to make a personal intimate thing such a publicly debated issue.... what u do in your own bedroom is your business. keep it to yourself and you don't have to put up with bullshit from anyone.
But let's introduce into the argument the magazine thats 'Outs' gay people who clearly don't want to be 'outed' . wtf gives them the right to 'expose' someone as gay??. Who the fuck do they think they are!!!

12 Oct 2005

Quote by little gem
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????
The us and them attitude you're showing.
People who are gay are what they are same as straight folk.... however most minorities have a celebration of their culture, Irish festival for example.
The gay culture, not all homosexual people take part in and it doesn't effect the way they integrate into society as people in their own right. People who are gay have feelings and are still sometimes descriminated against. Celebrations... It's a solidarity thing and good for people to realise that not everyone is the same but we can all get along.
No-one has to shove anything down anyone's throats, literally or otherwise and the terminolgy you use to decribe things I find crude and provocatively written.
I am not saying you have to change your views as they are your own and you're entitled to them... however I do think even though this is the steam room, thinking about how you write things is still needed.
kiss

Gem. x
What she said ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ :thumbup:
Lol Gem you beat me too it!....and more eloquently im sure!

12 Oct 2005

Quote by little gem
wishy, I am actually offended.

er......... by me or by them having a special day????
The us and them attitude you're showing.

Now hold on a sec.... I'm displaying no 'us and them' attitude here.......... that's my point entirely........ it's THEM who creating this attitude by separating THEMselves from the rest of society....... I want them to be gay if that's what they want to be .. but integrate it into society and live like the rest of us........ and stop bleating on about it!
Go read a poem I posted on the poetry thread...... it's about homophobia in the days of Quentin Crisp...... when a man WAS beaten up for being openly gay ... those days are gone.... it is accepted in most places of the world now......I just wish they'd SHUT UP TALKING ABOUT IT.. your sex life is YOUR business!!!

12 Oct 2005

Quote by Wishmaster
Gotta let off steam about this............
Gen_Herts_Cpl mentioned they were holidaying in the US right in the middle of Gay Day Whatever!!!
Why do gays have to celebrate it ffs........ is there a hetero special day???
Do heterosexual people run around mincing 'Hey! Look at me, I'm straight!'
.........grrrrrrrrrrrr ....... Gay people seem to think that being gay affords them special status... why? ffs...... . nothing special about sticking ur dick up another guy's shitter is there? Or one woman going down on another woman ... er.. well maybe there is ..... hehehe ...... but my point is..... if you're gay .. keep it to yaself!!!!!........ no need to shove it down everyone else's throat is there!!!!

Sorry Wish, matey... but there aint no "hehehehe's" in it..... a "grrrr" and a "ffs"... but no light heartedness... as i read it anyway. I see your point. Kind of. As personal I don't care who has sex with who as it's none of my business. But when there are sections of this society who would love to see homosexuality made illegal, or when people are victimised simply for being gay, then I know where I stand on that issue.
You know my views on this, you know what I am called at work, you know I am straight, but until we have a society where people aren't seen as being "perverts and sodomites" then the more out of the closet it is, the better!
Can I relax now? hehehehe... biggrin