That was cruelly cut short by my beautiful wife ripping the heart out of me by telling me that she wants to be a "free spirit" and may want a divorce :cry: Piss off i said and be a free spirit and leave me with my 1 and 3 yr old kids. Surely a free spirit cant take them with her
Now we have moved to a new level, a level which over the two weeks ive been able to harden myself to tackle.
I am an ange and been the accomodating fixture in the housel!
Because i have suggested relate (she has accepted but cancelled two appointments)and if the worse comes to the worse joint custody Her (wait for it) mother in law :twisted: is now involved suggesting i am not suitable to look after them . My wifes mother has accused me of a Drink problem :D I wish. I did drink too much in 1998 at least 4 times a week but never DRUNK,i ( i know who defines) I in the last 3 yrs have lost 2.5 stone and trained back to my fitness of when i was 25 so the suggestion was laughed off. Although i am aware that i did drink too much however
Now i am an aggressor!¬!!!!!!
Her mum saw us argue and as she NEVER argues its my fault
I argued with K because she didnt give me sex and Mother in law saw me argue!!!!
She saw one arguement which involved me telling K she was "frigid" and yes i did because she openly admitted using her vibrator when i was 8 weeks without any we had this argument for every 8 weeks since i met her K was more interested in her hobby or work Her view on sex was that everything u read in the tabloids about women liking sex is "just that Tabloids"
I have to add that in her defence my son is 16 months when i made that comment and these problems started in November. so as many women who have borne child will know it may be hard to get bothered and horny :wink: so perhaps the timing was wrong for her mum to see.
The sad thing though was K sitting as her mother cut into me and not defending me. I asked her later why she stayed quiet as her mother lied she said " i couldnt hear her as she was thinking alone
i was numb" :cry:
I love her deeply but now feel its grown bigger thanks to her mum. so after the Hols i fear Goodbye Moorhopper and Goodnite
(ive thought for a while to send this tonite but deciced to ) As you dont know me i have made very little reference to my nature so i will accept you will condemn me for holding back and not being realistic. I wont compromise on the truth I was as a nice guy an arsehole but i dont deserve this.
For those i ever meet you will see the injustice of my plight
Thanks
