That was cruelly cut short by my beautiful wife ripping the heart out of me by telling me that she wants to be a "free spirit" and may want a divorce :cry: Piss off i said and be a free spirit and leave me with my 1 and 3 yr old kids. Surely a free spirit cant take them with her
Now we have moved to a new level, a level which over the two weeks ive been able to harden myself to tackle.
I am an ange and been the accomodating fixture in the housel!
Because i have suggested relate (she has accepted but cancelled two appointments)and if the worse comes to the worse joint custody Her (wait for it) mother in law :twisted: is now involved suggesting i am not suitable to look after them . My wifes mother has accused me of a Drink problem
I wish. I did drink too much in 1998 at least 4 times a week but never DRUNK,i ( i know who defines) I in the last 3 yrs have lost 2.5 stone and trained back to my fitness of when i was 25 so the suggestion was laughed off. Although i am aware that i did drink too much however Now i am an aggressor!¬!!!!!!
Her mum saw us argue and as she NEVER argues its my fault
I argued with K because she didnt give me sex and Mother in law saw me argue!!!!
She saw one arguement which involved me telling K she was "frigid" and yes i did because she openly admitted using her vibrator when i was 8 weeks without any we had this argument for every 8 weeks since i met her K was more interested in her hobby or work Her view on sex was that everything u read in the tabloids about women liking sex is "just that Tabloids"
I have to add that in her defence my son is 16 months when i made that comment and these problems started in November. so as many women who have borne child will know it may be hard to get bothered and horny
so perhaps the timing was wrong for her mum to see.The sad thing though was K sitting as her mother cut into me and not defending me. I asked her later why she stayed quiet as her mother lied she said " i couldnt hear her as she was thinking alone
i was numb" :cry:
I love her deeply but now feel its grown bigger thanks to her mum. so after the Hols i fear Goodbye Moorhopper and Goodnite
(ive thought for a while to send this tonite but deciced to ) As you dont know me i have made very little reference to my nature so i will accept you will condemn me for holding back and not being realistic. I wont compromise on the truth I was as a nice guy an arsehole but i dont deserve this.
For those i ever meet you will see the injustice of my plight
Thanks
