Sorry to waste some of yous time to read this as i know it really isnt an interesting post!
Im a 26 straight male, been in the current relationship for almost 3 years with a good sex life. I have always known that my girl finds the idea of spanking really turns her on, (which i dont mind at all, although it doesnt work the same for me). To cut the story short, i tried to add in a bit of spanking when we have sex, since i know it REALLY turns her hornier than ever!! and seeing her that horny is what works for me!!
She appreciated my attempt but she said its nothing like the idea of being spanked by strangers, but then she would feel bad if in real life any other buys touching her apart from me, that she feels she'd be cheating on me!! (which it how i did feel too at the time)
Ever since i know what she fantasizes, and knowing it that it will never happen for her in real life, I would talk to her about it when we make out, i would make her to tell me how she would like to be spanked by another guy, and how naughty she is for wishing that!!
Well here the thing, since then i find myself strangly getting more than ever turned on by telling her how another guy would play with her and taking her!!! The more i tell her about it, the more i fatasize about the idea........which scares me in a way!
I started thinking to myself, have i interests in watching my girlfriend being fucked by other men??( Even writing this up now, im having a bulge in my trousers....) I even started searching the internet to see if i can find more about what i may unknowingly like!
Again like my girlfriend, altough i find the idea of it most exhilarating, Im actually not sure if i can in real life let another man touching my girl tho......this contradiction in my head is really confusing me and killing me.
Any advice as to what i should/could do??
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Only wanting some advice......
Well sweetie, my advice to you would be if you think theres a chance youd enjoy it, and your relationship is strong enough to survive if you dont like it then do try it.
Mr Naughty was the same with me until we had a threesome and ever since he cant get enough. I'm not saying that every man is the same but yuo'll never know unless you try.
Vicky xxx
Mr Naughty was the same with me until we had a threesome and ever since he cant get enough. I'm not saying that every man is the same but yuo'll never know unless you try.
Vicky xxx
Interesting problem. Asking tor advice on a forum is an excellent start, & I would advise that you both look at as many information sources as you can find. Talk it out thoroughly & honestly, because as you are aware, it would be tragic if you broke up over it.
But ultimately, like Lil_Miz says, you can only really know if you try it. It could be the worst decision of your life............... or the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But ultimately, like Lil_Miz says, you can only really know if you try it. It could be the worst decision of your life............... or the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Interesting problem. Asking tor advice on a forum is an excellent start, & I would advise that you both look at as many information sources as you can find. Talk it out thoroughly & honestly, because as you are aware, it would be tragic if you broke up over it.
Agree with HungryP. Why not try talking about it when you aren't having sex. The main thing I believe is that your relationship must be strong and your trust in each other even stronger. I have said this before on here and I'll say it again - the couples I have met on here seem to have the strongest and most trusting relationships I have ever come across.
Thanks to all you lovely people! I guess I will have a good open talk with her about our situation when she egts back(Currently away for work). Should let you all know what turns out!! Either we keep that to our fantasies and have great sex like we ve been having, or perhaps to explore into our fatasies and have great sex!! :P ................so what was i worried about hey?! 
Thanks again, and i see myself gonna be staying here for a while!
Thanks again, and i see myself gonna be staying here for a while!
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You seem to be on the right track.
Good luck to you both. I'm sure it's all gonna be really fine.
New Year, more fun! he hee
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Good luck to you both. I'm sure it's all gonna be really fine.
New Year, more fun! he hee
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