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“Open minded” – a swingers view or a general view?

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Hi……
I saw a post made by phuckers….. last night asking about open mindedness…Now for love nor money can I find it any where and the searchy box thingi wont work for me either……
If it is still around can some kind mod put this one with it please?
I have been thinking about this thread all night……
'My' thoughts are these…..
If you are saying that you are open minded, surly you relate this to everything within your life/existence/reality ?
So many people say they are open minded, yes I have seen it and heard it so many times……… only to sadly find out, that their mind isn’t quite as open as they would like you to believe….
Being open minded to me, is being able to accept and totally understand that anything can (and is) be a possibility, and also not judging anyone for his or her thoughts actions or understanding that we are all connected and have the opportunity to learn and grow from each other…Being able to let go of past experiences/conditioning that can influence the present moment, along with being able to love everyone, and every experience you have…
You don’t see love here talked about much ( I am not talking about the relationship/marriage ohhh I love you darling love here…)…..Personally I have found that it is a word that can be so misused and abused….
Love is a present moment thing…and we live in the present, not in the past or the future…..
Love is being in the presence of someone or something, sharing joy, giving life and having fun….
You cant love yesterday, and you cant love tomorrow, you can only love today…. And it will last as long as you keep loving…
Love connects……
Anything is possible…
Everything is alive…
Love is energy….
Concentration moves energy…and it is all happening now….
Sorry I digress…….
Being open minded in a swingers point of view?
I would say……is Freedom with responsibility?
What says you?????
In a word..............bollox
Nobody I have known is "open minded". They are accepting to things that agree with their own views, religion, politics, etc, but not of others. This is where it falls down to me.
If everyone was open minded then we would not have opinions but sheep..............now being Welsh......I could quite like this idea :rose:
Dave_Notts
Um
That's a mighty thread opener Willow
Freedom does bring resposibility.
I have found the members here to be open minded and accepting of people and their kinks (you have to be there are so many biggrin )
I heard someone say
"The trouble with being open minded is that your head is full with rubbish"
So you do need some kind of reality/logic buffer and you're own moral compass.
Oh Snappy loves you biggrin but HandBag doesn't :cry:
I am open minded, I will listen, then when you offend against me....I will blow your brains out.. but it does have to be a big offence.
Smile it was a joke biggrin
thanks willow i accidentally clicked delete instead of edit but am watching this with interest,good opener too..